I'm 30 years old and live with my fiance. My mum remarried 4 years ago after a messy and violent divorse with my dad. I've always had a good working and family relationship with my step dad, (It's just him and me running a small businnes). But a few things have happened in the last few months that I'm finding difficult to cope with and don't know what to do next.
My step dad spends all afternoon in the pub while I'm in the office. He comes back drunk and a little too confident in the wrong areas. Early this year, he started to get a bit inappropriate with borderline suggestive comments on how I look and called me 's*x toy' very loudly in a crowded pub on one occasion. Since then, he's touched me on my thigh a few times and has tapped me on the backside on two occasions. He hasn't done anything since I told him off about a month ago for his inappropriate behaviour. I will not ruin my mums life and tell her...she's been through enough in her lifetime and is happier now than she's ever been. My step dad is wonderful in so many ways, but I'm struggling with what has happened, and am scared it will happen again. I now hate my job and am starting to hate myself too. I seem to be falling deeper into a state of depression because of what is happening at work, and I can't tell my fiance the real reason why. I feel terrible for this, because we value our trust and honesty with each other. I'm concidering talking to my fiance about this, but don't want any of it out in the open, and I don't want him to hate my step dad. I also feel embarraced and wonder if I'm making a fuss about nothing. I CAN'T leave my job either; I just want to get my head round all this and don't know how. What would you do? Do you think I should talk to my fiance?
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