My friend Beth divorced her husband about 3 years ago. It was an amicable divorce and there were no children involved, although she has a child from a former marriage. Shortly after their divorce I heard from a very reliable source that her husband had been cheating on her with a co-worker the entire time they were married. I didn't tell Beth at the time because I didn't want to hurt her. Now she has started seeing the ex again and I can tell she has stars in her eyes and thinks this is leading to them getting back together. My source tells me her ex is still involved with the co-worker. She has a really good job and I think the ex misses the lifestyle he had with her. I can see where he would want her back to raise his standard of living. Now do I keep my mouth shut and let her go back into this relationship, or do I tell her what I know. I hate to not say anything especially since there is a child involved with a step daddy moving in and out of her life, plus STD's are rampant these days. I know if I tell her she is going to be upset with me for not saying something 3 years ago, but I thought the bum was gone for good and didn't want to hurt her. What do I do?
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