Should I tell my girlfriend I'm inexperienced or try to be confident?

Question

I started seeing this girl and I know she has a lot more experience dating (dating, kissing, s*x) than I do. Should I let her know that I'm inexperienced and kind of unsure of myself if I'm doing things right (while making out, during s*x, moving to the next step) or should I try to pretend I know what I'm doing and just do the best I can without telling her. I know that girls like confident men and guys that know what they're doing. Unfortunately, I don't know what I'm doing. It seems like she might want a guy who's experienced...

What should I do?

Btw, I'm 22 and she's 21.

Answer 1

You should def. tell her your inexperienced because some girls like that because it shows you havent been with many girls. Anyway if you dont tell her and you act like you know what your doing and you really dont she will think maybe its just that you suck at it..

I hope i helped good luck! =]  

Answer 2

personally i would tell her many times women find that kind of attrative because then she can show u how she likes it rather then expecting u to know. confindence is key you should keep your confindence even by telling her. ask her what she likes in relationships as well as kissing and s*x every women is different and if you ask she will feel confident that you care about what she likes too while it give you ideas to work from.... good luck i hope i helped :)

Answer 3

You can't be confident about stuff you don't know.  Take my advice.  Just let her know.  You have to know something to be confident.  So tell her.

Answer 4

Well you should tell her you don't have as much relationship experience as she does. If this doesn't bother her then stick with her. If it does I would leave her.. Over time you will have more experience..it's not really a long process. She should like you for who you are though.. good luck :p

Answer 5

Be confident. Act like you know what you're doing. Experienced men are not necessarily good lovers. If she's the right kind of girl, she should not judge you. If she's the wrong kind of girl, she will use it against you if you tell her you're inexperienced. She'll be looking for faults. I don't know about you, but I'd hate to have a girl telling me constantly what to do, even if I didn't know how to do it. I would rather figure it out myself. It's like a passenger seat driver. Too much guidance gets super-annoying.