Should I tell my girlfriend about my p***s?

Question

My girlfriend and I have been dating for about four years and we started talking about having s*x. We have been tested and are free of any STDs. This is the first time for the both of us. However, I am worried that s*x for her for the first time won't be fun because I have not been circumcised and the f******n can cover the head of the p***s and i think uncircumcised men o****m faster.

Answer 1

You're thinking about having s*x, and she hasn't seen your p***s yet? I understand that you've been in a relationship for 4 years, but you can't learn to walk before you can crawl - get what I'm saying? I guess depending on your age, it doesn't really make a difference, but I really would have thought she would have seen it by now...or touched it, or something.

But, regardless, don't worry about it. It's normal and healthy so unless she's a stuck up b word then you have nothing to be concerned about. If it's bothering you that much, tell her straightforward.  

Answer 2

Relax about it, you're natural. If she wants someone who has been mutilated and lost some of the girth from it, that's her problem.

Answer 3

First of all.. having a f******n is a good thing! as long as you keep down there clean. f******n will bring you a greater, more intense pleasure while having s*x.. that is why uncirc men may o****m faster, as it feels better.

A tip for before you do have s*x; m********e, or get her to give you oral until o****m first.. and make sure you give it her back ^^

this will mean you last longer the next time, and stay erect during intercourse.

Just don't worry.. sexual pleasure comes from being at ease with one another.. take your time, ask her what she likes/makes her feel good, and make it an experience to remember ^^

As it is both your first times, you both know no other, so its bount to be an adventure, and feel great :)

Answer 4

The f******n will go back when you get an erection. Make sure you keep it clean. Being circumcised or not, has nothing to do with early ejaculation. Some men just ejaculate quicker.  

Answer 5

Some women care, which I think is sad. It won't give her less pleasure during intercourse, nor you.

You have nothing to worry about. Just make sure you both  communicate, and use a condom EVERY time.

You may o****m faster the first time, but thats ok. You can still pleasure her orally or with your fingers. Try things out with her and ask it if it feels good, if not, try something else. As long as you don't roll over and fall asleep before she reaches o****m, its ok.

Just relax, communicate and play it safe.

Answer 6

f******n should not be an issue. If you know how to use it well, it wont matter. You might ejaculate quick on the first go round just from the anxiety but if you try doing PC muscle excerises then you should be able to control when and how.

PC muscles control the flow of s***n and urine, the firmness of your p***s during erection and the shooting power of your ejaculation. They are important, and if kept very strong, will see you into your golden years with a fantastical hard on. The great thing about Kegel exercises for men is that you can do them anywhere, anytime -- and nobody will know the difference.

You will be able to better control your orgasms and ejaculations, and last for longer, plus you may get the added kudos of being able to hold up a wet towel with your erection if you practice these Kegel exercises for men.

How do I know where my PC muscles are?

The easiest way to find them is to stop your flow of urine next time you go to the bathroom. Another way to isolate them is to put your finger inside your a**s; when you contract the right muscles, your a**s will tighten. However you decide to find them, once they are found you need to practice feeling exactly where they are located -- it is easy to overcompensate for weak muscles by using the abdominals, buttocks or thighs. These must all stay relaxed when doing Kegel exercises for men.

Now, on to the daily Kegel exercises for men.

Note: These exercises are done hands-free. You do not “squeeze” anything with your hands as they are all done with your PC muscles.

kegel session 1Exercise A

Sets: 3

Quickly clench and release repeatedly for 10 seconds.

Take a 10-second break between sets.

Exercise B

Sets: 10

Clench and release repeatedly for 5 seconds.

Take a 5-second break between sets.

Exercise C

Sets: 3

Tighten and hold your PC muscle for 30 seconds.

Take a 30 second break between sets.

That’s it for today, but repeat these Kegel exercises for men daily for one week.

kegel session 2Exercise A

Sets: 10

Clench and hold your PC muscle for 5 seconds.

Release and repeat.

Exercise B

Sets: 3

Quickly clench and release your PC muscle 10 times.

Exercise C

Sets: 3

Clench and release your PC muscle alternatively in long and short bursts for counts of 10.

Exercise D

Sets: 1

Tighten your PC muscle and hold for as long as you can. Aim for 2 minutes.

You can do the session 2 Kegel exercises for men for a week; however, feel free to progress if you feel you are strong enough. Remember that these are strengthening exercises, so start off slowly and build up, just like you would with any other muscle.

Answer 7

Having an intact p***s is normal and it functions better than a circumcised one. Studies show it feels better for the woman. The f******n sliding up and down over the head and back feels nice for both parties. If this is your first time you will probably o****m fast anyway (cut guys do too unless they have real sensitivity problems), just don't worry about it. You can always go again shortly afterwards or do oral on her, but if she likes you I don't think she'll mind if you o****m easily when you first start having s*x, it will most likely get better in time.

Harriet

Answer 8

Don't worry about it,  I heard that you enjoy s*x more when you are uncut.