Should I tell my mom??

Question

I need help on how to tel my mom I'm bisexual or if i should even tell her...I'm a little scared because one day we wer watching tv and sum g*y guy on the movie popped out and she was like "Miguel if you ever become g*y i will be so angry and i will kill you and i will kick you out of the house' i was like ok ok!!!

but ever since then i keep thinking now i cant tell her because she wont accept me so little old me ran away :| but then she found me and now im back home so i still havent told her and im still scared...now should i just go ahead and tell her or stay quiet until i move out on my own???

Answer 1

For your own safety I would recommend waiting but it would be a good idea to get a support system set up for yourself. Tell someone you trust, A best friend, aunt or uncle, someone you feel safe with and can confide in.

When you do come out, I would recommend getting some books on homosexuality. From what you say, it would appear as if your mother doesn't understand exactly what homosexuality/bisexuality is and you should at least help her understand that no one will become g*y.

You running away was probably a sign for her but I doubt that she would link it to the movie and the comment, Parents can be oblivious on this point.

Good luck and stay safe!

Answer 2

If you want a good a relationship with your mom you need to be honest and straight with her (no pun intended). If she loves you unconditionally she will understand.

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Answer 3

Tell her when you're ready.

She's your mother, and she shouldn't reject you for who you are.

She obviously sounds like she doesn't want you to choose this lifestyle, but if she really wants to see you happy and successful, she'll allow this, and will accept you, for you.

You need to tell her that being g*y is like a normal marriage. You can still have children (adoption, sperm donation), and that your significant other will make you happy, and tell her you want to be happy in life.

Answer 4

i think you should tell her

she's your mom and she needs to be supportive of every decision you make whether or not she agrees with it

Answer 5

i think that you should sit her down and explain to her when you felt this way.. if she loves you then she should accept you even if you were the color blue. and if she doesn't accept you just tell her you can't control the way you feel. you shouldn't be scared to tell your mom..and if you are then something is wrong because you should be able to tell your mom things like this knowing she won't get angry. that's a little thing called unconditional love. =]

Answer 6

I think you should, its obviously bothering you. It will be hard at first but shes your mother, she will accept you no matter what.

Answer 7

It sounds like you are old enough to have a meaningfull convo with ur mom. I definitely think u should. Im sure she would understand, and she will still love you even tho u have different decisions. YOu should sit her down and explain, dont just say it  out of the blue 2 her. :)

God loves you no matter what to, dont worry so much, everything should be fine if its handled right :) Hope everything workss out.

-Sarah-

Answer 8

It depends if you have another person to take you in if your mother is serious about kicking you out or not.

If you have no one to turn to if your mother left you, don't let her know until you're able to rely on yourself enough. But do not forget to let her know, unless you never want a relationship with her. If you do on the other hand have someone else to take you in, don't be afraid to ever admit who you are. You might someday have to have them know anyways. Just because other people can't accept you, doesn't mean you shouldn't.