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Should I tell my mom ......?

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My mom and her boyfriend were having s*x last night. (i think) He was making weird noises and I couldn't sleep because I was too worried and so I got up knocked on their door and opened the door.I think mom was naked because I had to wait for her to do something. (I don't know what but I think she had her clothes off) Should I tell her the bible verse that says it is a sin to do it with a man your not married to?

I have talked to her about it before and she acted like it didn't matter.I feel like she likes him better than me.I feel like I'm trash or something.

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  1. oh, it's her personal life. if you feel uncomfortable, you can change your room.


  2. Talk to your mom and let her know exactly how you feel.

  3. Your mother is a growen woman ...she has needs that need to be fulfilled...you can talk to her and tell her how you feel...What happens behind closed doors of consenting adults is a private matter as long as no laws are being broken

  4. If you were hearing strande noises and they were naked, then yes, they were having s*x. Everybody pretty much knows that it says in the bible that it's a sin to have s*x with a man you aren't married to. It's her choice to follow it or not follow it.

    I don't think you should tell her the verse from the bible. Her having premarital s*x isn't really whats bothering you, is it? I think you are just worried that your mom loves somebody besides you.

    But just know that it's a different kind of love. I've convinced myself of that, too. I am pissed at my mom for having her loser, lazy, convicted felon in the house, and I always ask her why she can't kick him out of our house for me and my brother and sister.

    But I know my mom loves me. She's just going through a hard time. Soon she will see. I just cut her some slack, she just got through a bad divorce with my dad etc.

    You should do the same for your mom. But tell her how you really feel.- how you think that she likes him more than you.

    hope this helps=]

  5. well then talk about how you feel like trash or something in a poliet way and talk about this whole thing to get the truth because that is what you need right now.

  6. She is your mother and you do have to honor and respect her, regardless of the choices she is making. She may be lonley for some adult company, but you can show her all the love and support she has in you, by setting up days for mother daughter time in advance with her, also include others ie.other family memebers your friends, her firends show her she has everything she needs already.   Even as a child you can led by example, read your bible daily to keep yourself strong, and Pray incessantly that you stay on a righteous trail.  Be specific in your prayers and also ask for the right way and the right words to deal with this situation when speaking to your mom.  I know you maybe missing your mom attention since she has a boyfriend, this person maybe in your live for awhile so from time to time include him as well in your plans.  If your mom is in love, unfortunately it blinds people even moms, so let her know you miss her and want to spend some more time with her.  

    Show love and respect and you will get it back.

    Trust me your mom loves you.

    Hope this helps.

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