Should I tell my wife that I m********e?

Question

I'm married and I still m********e for reasons like (not liking to wake up my wife in the morning just to have s*x, or if my wife is having the period, or when I see that she's not in the mood, etc.).

I feel bad that I'm doing this behind her back... Should I tell her about it or better to keep it for myself?

Answer 1

some things are better off left PRIVATE

Answer 2

If you feel it wouldn't end well, keep it to yourself. It's more of a private thing anyway.

Answer 3

She probably already assumes you do and is grateful that you don't bother her.  No need to tell her and no need to feel bad.  

Answer 4

are you saying that your MARRIED and she doesnt know this????????????????????????????????????

couples should know this stuff about eachother from the very start

Answer 5

I THINK I WOULD KEEP IT TO MYSELF UNLESS SHE CATCHES YOU GOING AT IT,,THEN TELL HER YOU DO IT CAUSE YOU  LOVE HER N YOU DONT WANT ANYONE ELSE JUST CAUSE SHES NOT FEELING GOOD,,SHE WILL UNDERSTAND,,,PEACE

Answer 6

h**l no let her catch you.

Answer 7

1. Keep it for yourself.

2. Don't telling her is not doing it "behind her back"... it just is none of her business!

3. All men m********e... all women too!

4. Your masturbation is your own business. If she wants to m********e let her do it, if she doesn't want let her not do it.

5. When she has the period ask her for anal... she will most certainly refuse, so, keep masturbating!!!!

Answer 8

ummmm yur a dude, u don't have to tell her u m********e. she already knows....if yur male, you yank the snake!!!! my hubby does, and it doesn't bother me. as long as its only his hand hes cheating with! lol. don't worry about it. as long as u can give it to her when she wants it, then who cares if she knows. good luck

Answer 9

This happens to many people man!

Take the life as it comes.

or have one more girl friend who accede to all your requests.

Answer 10

Dont worry about it. Chances are she does it too.. Dont feel bad. Its normal.

Answer 11

Depending on your wife's sexual temperament, you can either a) tell her in a post-s*x conversation or b) let her "accidentally" catch you. You may be surprised at the avenues in your s*x life this could open up!

Answer 12

My husband masturbates, I do.  As long as you are not denying her s*x because of it, I wouldn't worry about it.  It is a very natural thing to do.

Answer 13

She probably already knows. But if it makes you feel better, you can always talk to her about it.

It's a perfectly natural thing to do, and I'd much rather hear about boys or men masturbating in private rather than harassing women and young girls in public.

And nothing wrong with s*x while you're on your period ... speaking as a woman.

Answer 14

I'm sure she knows. Everyone does it, it is perfectly natural.

Answer 15

she knows, all guys do it. my partner has never told me but i know he does. Dont you think she might just do the same when she's in the shower or your not home?  

Answer 16

perfectly natural, everyone does it