Should I try again or leave it?

Question

I was with this guy for most of last year, but we broke up 3 times because

1st time my family didn't accept him

2nd time i said something silly which he took seriously

3rd time he said we have future,

Its been 10 months now and I miss him so much, everytime i see him he doesn't stop staring at me andwhen we talk I know he is holding something back, but when we talk we argue ( i went out with his friend for one day and everyone thinks we had s*x when we didnt), he always starts like he is going to ask me out but then he switches and he talks to me like im worthless and yet his voice is full of pain when he does it, we said some horrible things to each other and neither of us has had anothr relationship since. he always apologises whe he hurts me. I am sick of just sitting around crying for him,, but im scared of being rejected, i always pretend i dont want him back but i do and because he believes me he wont make a move. I am relly scared but I cant shake the feeling that this is true love, Should I make a move or should i walk away? and how will i ever be able o walk away?

please help.

Thank you so much.

Answer 1

Walk away.  What you describe is emotional abuse.  Do not allow this at this age!  Stand up for yourself.  I'm going to guess you are from a broken family.  You should talk to a counselor about why you desire to be in an abusive relationship.  

You deserve better.  Move on.

Answer 2

Front up to him and tell him you are in love with him and want to try again.  If he says no accept it and move on and if his says yes - great!

Really you have nothing to lose and will gain either way so get on with it.

Answer 3

Move on there are plenty more fish in the sea.

Answer 4

ask him how he feels about you and getting back together

better off knowing how he feels than torturing yourself waiting for the day he"ll say something (especially after acting like you don't want him in your life anymore)

Answer 5

be yourself,if you love him tell him so.you can't blame him if he won't make a move,cause as u said u made it appear that you don't want him back. and that leaves him a huge question and doubt that if he will call on u maybe he will be rejected too.be open and honest in telling him your feelings..being vulnerable is being woundable.but i say risk it,at least you won't think of "what if's" later on..what if u come up to him and u said that u want him back,and he would respond that he want u back too?see?.. just be true to what u feel.goodluck

Answer 6

It looks like you two have a difficult relationship which perhaps is meant to be just a good friendship but nothing more?