Should I wait for him ?

Question

This guy broke up with me 2 months ago , after our broke up . we still have feelings on each other . We almost got backed together but we didt . After that I found out his flirting with another girl . I felt so tired and hopeless and I told him , how much are not trustable is him . after this happened , we stop contacting for awhile . On another day , he came and talked to me and I told him how much I need him . and I said I will wait for him .

he ask me not to wait . perhaps . ther's are more good guys out there . But Im still loving him really very much and my virginity is owned by him . how can I just forget all these and get over so easily?

should I wait him ? I really miss him now , should I give him a call ?

Answer 1

Don't wait for him--he asked you not to, which is a sign that he wants you to move on.

It will be really hard, but try and get on with your life.

Answer 2

No, don't wait. He got what he wanted and he's moved on.  

Answer 3

Forget him!  There's a reason people from your past don't make it to your future!  He's obviousy moved on and he has told you not to wait for him which clearly tells you he's not coming back.

This is a good example of why I always tell girls not to be so quick to give away their virginity!  s*x usually means something very different to girls and I understand that you're feeling he will always have a part of you.  It's not easy to get over when you love someone, but think of it as a lesson well learned the hard way.

No, you shouldn't put your life on hold and wait for him!  He won't be back!  No, you shouldn't give him a call and for goodness sake don't tell him you need him!  Guys don't like needy females!  If you keep pursuing this you are making yourself look desperate and if he finally has to tell you to get lost to get you to stop, then you're going to feel REALLY bad...and embarassed!

Getting over someone takes time and with each contact you have with him, it's going to extend the time it takes.  In the meantime, you are wasting valuable time that you never get back!

Answer 4

call him!

tell him yu love him soooooo much! tell him everything yu said on here! show him that yu want him back say yur not going to wait like a dog but that he means so much nd that its killing yu not to be togetha nd tell him that if he loves yu still he would b with yu again!

Answer 5

move on, you do not need him, you can't find a other person to love.

Answer 6

Welcome to my world! I been through the same thing. It's hard to decide your path when you have such a strong feeling with the issue.  I say don't leave him totally out but be friends with him.  He might need you in the future because ya two know each pretty well.  So I say call him but show no emotions.  It was hard for me too but I got over her later. No girls for me until later. You need some time to get to understand yourself more. I did that! I hope it helps! ; )

Answer 7

the same kind of thing happened to me. id say, move on.he already has so you just have to face it and move on. i know it is very sad but if you get focused on flirting with a guy that you like, it takes away the pain by alot. go out to a club to socialize and flirt or flirt with someone you already know!

Answer 8

Dont wait for him, hes odvisouly moved on alredy.. guys are like that they always like to meet new females and they forget all about the ones that actually love them and care about them, and i mean youve prolly herd this from many other people the whole youll get over him and find some else , and its all very much true it may seem hard to believe it right now but over time thats gona change and before u know it youve alredy moved on and found someone else, also dont shut down any oportunities u get with another guy, meeting new people will only help speed up the process in fogeting that guy.... and no u cant just forget everything tha happened with him, those memories are gona last as long as u let them, u need to be strong and try to get him outa your life so u can move on , dont hold on to anything that would remind u of him, your just hurtin your self more by holding on whatever it mayb from him.... i wish you the best and hope to hear from you