Should We have another baby? Everyones opinion Wanted!♥?

Question

Well, My husband is between yes and no on this. whats your opinion? Im 18, i have a 2 yr old (my world : ) we just bought a house, im conflicted with wanting another. my problem is I was told last year i have endometriosis(causes sterility) I dont think im sterile yet, I also have ovarian cysts from time to time. I dont want to get to the point were we cant have more. which could be a year from now or 10 years from now, we dont know. in your experience or in your opinion should we try for # 2 now? Any reason why you think yes or no greatly appreciated!!!

Thanks Everybody!♥

Answer 1

I say go for it, I had female problems when I was 18 and I was only blessed with one child , If you and your husband are stable enough financially and emotionally then go for it this might be your only window of opportunity to have another child and also your children will be in close age to where they will  grow up and be the best of friends. I would do it in a heart beat. Good Luck and get busy making another little ankle bitter!!!

Answer 2

i think you should discuss the endometriosis with a doctor /perhaps even a specialist and find out what your fertility odds are. and if there are any viable treatment options available for you.  (i know of a few ppl that have had)  then go from there.

good luck

Answer 3

I think you should consult with your doctor the risks of having one now and the risks of waiting until later.  Weigh your options from his opinion and then go from there.   I would have one now.  I never wanted to be an older parent.  I had my last one at 25 (we have 3).

Answer 4

If you arent sure in yourself then you should wait until you both feel ready for another child. At the moment just give the attention to your first child and then when your ready and your positive you want to have another child go for it :)

Answer 5

I think you should try.If you can't conceive at least you will not regret  that you did not try.Siblings really do help a person become well rounded.And family are really the only ones you can count on to be there. And the time you have with kids goes fast- much faster than you can even imagine.

Answer 6

if u can afford it and there is a chance that u may not be able to in the future, id say do it now, because i would hate to think well if i would have done it then.......

Answer 7

In general: If you have to ask, you already know the answer.

Even so, choices like this should not be influenced by people you do not know.  It is strictly left up to you and your family.

So my opinion is ignore anything we say and just talk to your husband about it.  The last thing you want to do is force something like this.  Children can be a wonderful thing for a family, but they can also cause unneeded stress and problems with your relationship.  And if you two aren't happy, your kids won't be happy either.

Answer 8

If I was in your situation and had the risk of becoming fertile and believed I was ready for another child....I would go ahead and have one. Good Luck!

Answer 9

If you want one, then explain to him how you feel. Because like your said you could go sterile, and if you don't have one now then you will might never be able to have another one. Good Luck on what ever you do!

Answer 10

I think you should wait. You had your first one at a very very young age and you are still pretty young, what's the rush? Consult a good gynecologist and see about the cysts and stuff, I'm sure they can offer a treatment for them. But if she says that later on you will not be able to have kids, may be then you could have another one now. But get all kinds of tests done before making that decision to check when's the latest you could have the baby.

Best of luck!

Answer 11

I also have Endo, and infertility is something that I do worry about. My son is 2 1/2 now, and my husband and I (ages 20 and 22) both know for sure that we want more kids, but we're renting a one-bedroom apartment now, and we can't afford another child, so we're waiting.

With your new house, how long have you lived there? I would suggest giving it at least 6 months to make sure your budget is all sorted out, and to see how much higher the bills get during the winter months, when you have to deal with heating.

Endometriosis only causes total sterility in severe cases. Usually, it only causes infertility, which means that it might become difficult for you to become pregnant, but certainly not impossible. I was diagnosed with Endo when I was 16.

If you guys are set on having another kid, and you can afford it, I don't see any reason why you should have to wait, just because of your age. I know some 18 year old that are much better moms and dads than some 30 + year olds!

Answer 12

i would say go for it as long as you BOTH are ready.

Answer 13

Just count your blessings your able to have a child now.

When the good Lord blesses you with another one then you will know the answer.  It's because someone above wants you bring another child into your life.

Sorry... Not sure what your religion or belief is.  My point is blessings come from all cultures.

Answer 14

Quite aside from your medical problems, why would you want to bring another child into this stinking world?  

You sound intelligent enough to me to be able to look around you and see what kind of world we're living in now.  I think you can also look around and see that things are getting worse everyday.

You ain't seen nothing yet.  Things are going to keep on degenerating into World War III before Jesus comes back down here and puts a stop to all the evil in the world.  I expect this to happen in the next five years, plus or minus a year.

The smartest thing you, and your husband, can do right now is to pray this prayer:

Dear God, I acknowledge that Jesus Christ is the Son of God. I believe that He was born of the Virgin Mary. I believe that He died on the cross, that His blood was shed for my sins and that He arose from the dead. I confess that I have disobeyed your commandments. I ask you to forgive me for these sins. I now ask Jesus to come into my heart. Be my Savior. Be my Lord. Be my soon coming King. I will do my best to obey your teachings as recorded in the Bible. Thank you, in Jesus name. Amen.

God bless you and yours.

Answer 15

I think you should consult your gynecologist.  Ask them if they think you would be able to carry a second baby.  Just ask all the questions you asked us.  If you are able to I would say go for it.