Should a Guy Do This?

Question

If you are asleep and you are constantly having s*x in your sleep, and I don't mean just dreaming it I mean actually waking up doing it at the same time you are dreaming it. Or fondeling her while you are asleep.. Is this normal? Should it be happening every night? What should a person do?

Is this something a woman would enjoy, or is this something that would scare a woman?

Extra Notes::

Not one spot on the question does it show that I am speaking of me. This is a general question.

Answer 1

My husband did this for a short time during a time when we were under contract, working seven days a week and had no privacy/energy for s*x.  So I think it was his natural drive taking over in his sleep.  It didn't scare me, but it did annoy me, lol.

Answer 2

dude!.. there is something seriously wrong with you!

Answer 3

I read an article on this not that long ago, apparently it's more common than you think.

I believe it's called "Sleepsex" and is a form of a sleeping disorder, much like sleepwalking. It's due to hormones and is more commonly found in men, with women and children (molestation sleppsex) as the victims.

In this article som women said to find it annoying or scary, others said they enjoyed it and got a thrill from it.

Though apparently it can lead to serious legal issues especially when it comes to children. Experts say to to keep some kind of a diary or notes about it, i.e. when it most often occurs, if there is stress or lack of s*x in your life, who it's to (sexual partner, room mate, etc.)

If the case does come to involve legalities these notes could be used as legal documentation in a court of law.

If it becomes a serious problem, I believe it can be treated, but you may also want to talk to your lawyer so s/he is aware of the situation therefore can claim that it isn't a "one off" thing and can't be pegged immediately as rape.

Hope this helped.