Should a ask him to marry me

Question

ive been dating my boy for eight years and we both know that we want to

marry each other. he has not asked. and i want to start our lives together

w in the next two years. should i ask him to marry me

Answer 1

yeah do it, sounds good

Answer 2

sure go for it and good luck with it

Answer 3

Why not?

Answer 4

You should bring up the conversation and casually say you should get married already and see what he's reaction is. But I gotta tell you, I would not stick around for 8 years waiting for someone to ask me, a guy usually knows within the first two years of the relationship if he wants to marry his mate.

Answer 5

if he hasn't asked you then maybe he's not ready to get married or maybe there is an obstacle in the way that you don't know about. you should let him know how you feel that you want to get married but if he is hesitant then you shouldn't push it. either stay unmarried or move on.

Answer 6

I think it's time you move on and find someone else that loves you and respects you.  Eight years and you're not even engaged?  This guy is not committing whatsoever.  No, I wouldn't ask him to marry you, don't set yourself up for a big heart ache.  Or embarassment.  Just break it off and you'll find someone that you truly deserve, not some smuck who can't even commit to an engagement years ago.  I know this may not be what you want to hear, but I've been there.  The guys a loser.  You ask him to get married, and I bet he runs the other way.  Or dump you when you least expect it.  

Answer 7

If you know he'll say yes, than go for it!!!  Good luck.