Should a mistress be all up in a tizzy that she found out she's one of three?

Question

Should a mistress be all up in a tizzy that she found out she's one of three?

Answer 1

Sad fact of life ~ if someone will cheat on their spouse with you, they'll cheat on you with someone else.

Many 'mistresses' believe they are very special to the cheater they're with, and that only they understanhd this person. They also often picture the spouse as cruel, unloving and cold.

The fact is, in almost all cases, the cheat is the one who is an uncaring user.

Just think about how YOU feel when the cheat returns to their spouse, leaving you alone on special occasions like Christmas and Valentine's Day, or breaks off plans at the last moment because they have to avoid 'discovery'.

Sound very caring?

If you've found out now you're one of three, take it for what it is ~ a wake up call. Get out now and find someone who is free to give you the love, and life, you deserve, not the half life you will always have as a 'mistress'.

Best wishes :-)

Answer 2

No! She's the mistress! She don't have an opinion in the relationship. That's the wife's job! Now the wife should be all up "in a tizzy" but not the mistress. Hey, if the guy cheated once, he'll do it again. Nothing makes her special.

Answer 3

Well no, she should be apologetic that she allowed herself to be a part of an extramarital affair, mend her ways and go on with her life.

Answer 4

No, not at all. But I pity the wife!

Answer 5

yes as a mistess you are supposed to be the one he can be truthful to about just wanting s*x and about his feelings and so on but he's obviously not being truthful to you or anyone for that matter

Answer 6

Heck yeah!  A mistress can deal with 1 other woman, but 2?!?  How dare the b*****d!

[note: sarcasm]