Should a wife be mad at a husband if she caught him reading a book about a former p**n star at our library?

Question

i caught my husband reading this material and got upset, our daughter was a witness to this also. i really was upset with him and we had an all out argument. what should i do and is this a matter i should be so furious about?

Answer 1

Are you serious?????  You got upset at that?  Be thankful he wasn't masturbating to it as well - my god that would have just been the crushing blow wouldn't it.  Just get over yourself - he was reading the book in a library - not exactly a seedy squalid place to be reading a book now is it.  You over reacted, and you had no reason to explode at him.  I feel for your poor husband, what the h**l did he do to end up with a jealous, possissive haridon like you?

Answer 2

i think not he is a guy and some can't help them self.but if it was offensive  to u then be mad

Answer 3

i can't believe that you're being so sensitive about that! its nothing! theres alot more stuff going on the world to worry about than that. i'd apologise to him if i were you.

Answer 4

He wasn't watching p**n, was he? He was reading about the life of a former p**n star.

You should read the book too, and see what it was that he was interested in. Just because it has association with p**n doesn't necessarily mean that it's pornographic.  

Answer 5

For goodness sake, it was probably a biography or an autobiography! I rather think you may have confidence issues.

That is almost like telling me as a 53 year old woman and mother of two that I must be g*y because I read a book written by the g*y comedian Julian Clarey!

Answer 6

I dont see why your so mad, whats the big deal??

Are you insecure?

Answer 7

I Personally dont see why you should be mad about your husband reading a book on p**n, Personally the World today is alot more open about s*x then say 10 years ago. a guy looking at p**n! its just everyday life! i think its a healthy thing more than a bad thing it could be worse!

Answer 8

No - why would you get upset - it's just a book....

Answer 9

You have a right to be upset, your feelings are just as valid as anyone else's. But if you're mad about him reading a book in the library, I'm willing to bet that you'd leave him over what he does with the PC when you're not around. A serious discussion (NOT ACCUSATION!!!!) about s*x, fantasy, and p**n sounds long overdue here.

Answer 10

You don't have a right to be mad about what reading materials he choses. I'm sure what he was reading was no worse than us women reading Cosmo magazine. If your daughter was a witness that is what concerns me. Depending on her age he should have kept that material in a place where she would not be able to see that he was reading it. Hey I can't get my hisband to read anything. You should be thrilled.