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Should a woman pay for herself on a date?

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maybe not in the start of the dating. But as it goes on you should fork up some money to be nice.
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if the woman is hotter than the man, then no.
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i think either you pay for both or he should but not individually
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Only if there were say friends or it was prearranged.
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If a woman pays for herself, it's not a date but a Dutch Treat which means it is just buddies going out to amuse themselves together and be company for one another.

Sorry.
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she should offer and then the man says no so any guys if you go on a date and this does not happen Run Like h**l because you will pay for the rest of your life
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I don't agree that the man should always pay. If it is a first date and you asked him out, you should pay and vice versa. If you have been dating for a while I think you should take turns, or at least offer to pay. Some guys will refuse and some guys will accept, but they will appreciate the offer regardless.
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If she insists. But I believe on a date each person should pay their half. My bf said he would never let me pay half either we both pay or he pays.
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In the world I live in the man always provides for the woman!
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the women should never pay on the first date

but you could leave the tip...............
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I think if a gentleman invites a woman out on a date he should pick up the tab. If you split the bill then it is just a friendly get together.

The only time I am allowed to treat is on his birthday.
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no way dat is sooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo... wronge but u have to get some after wards or shes not worth..like ashley s
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FOR CASUAL DATING I DON'T THINK SO, MEN ALWAYS EXPECT TO PAY. I ALWAYS USE TO OFFER, AND THEY WOULD SAY NO, SO NOW I DON'T ASK.

I DO THINK IF YOU BECOME MORE SERIOUS WITH A MAN HE SHOULDN'T HAVE TO PAY FOR EVERYTHING. EVERY ONCE IN A WHILE SUPRISE HIM BY PAYING.
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help each other pay..it's fair enough!
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If a man asks a woman to dine then he should pay. Stacey in Ohio
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ell there is always some other ways

say....washing the dishes mayB
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If your asking that question your not getting any after dinner
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A woman should never pay for herself on a date, especially at the start of dating.
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No, not on a date. It would be different if it was just 2 friends going out...
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i think for a first date or second date yes she should
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I believe that the person who asks for the date should pay for the date; however, that being said, I think that a woman should pay for herself if she feels like there is an expectation to "put out" on the part of the guy who asked her out. A wise woman covers herself no matter the situation.
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no
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If a man asks a lady on a date, its like saying, I'd like to take you out and treat you to, drinks meal movie etc.....Its nice though if a woman offers to pay, its all part of courtship.
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I think it is OK for a woman to pay on a date if she asked the other to go with (invited). But usually I see women trying to pay and if the man is true gentleman, he will end up paying. It all depends on the situation, if it a luncheon, meeting, or just friends date.
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I would never ask a woman to pay for her own way. But I'm kind of old school. If she said she really wanted to pay, I guess I wouldn't mind.
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Danielle if you do this you will have the upper hand vis-a-vis your BF
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why not? equal means equal.. gotta take the bad with the good ;)
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I do.
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Whoever does the asking should do the paying.
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noooooooo
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Assuming that you are at the beginning of a relationship, I think whoever asked the person out for a date should pay, regardless of whether they are a man or woman. The whole idea of expecting a man to pay for you is very outdated. It's pretty hypocritical too, as women how can we demand total equality and then expect men to uphold this old tradition and always pay for us, and open doors for us... It doesn't make sense.
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