Should adoptions be banned?

Question

Except for people who can't have children due to medical reasons.

Why should fertile people adopt children? By adopting children they are preventing their biological children from coming to this earth. Those kids have every right to see this world. We have no right to prevent their birth. It's a shame that the size of families is getting shorter and shorter.

Only infertile people should be allowed to adopt children. Remember God is there for children who don't have parents.

Answer 1

If this isn't the most ignorant thing I've seen all day I don't know what is!

Are you kidding me? do you know how many kids are in foster care?THOUSANDS.They deserve homes whether God is there for them or not.

And if you want to get technical...if adopting prevents kids from being born, has it ever occurred to you that maybe those souls were never meant to live on earth?

You need a reality check darling.

Answer 2

Bottom line... Sweetheart you are totally ignorant!!!!!!! Before you start making these Bull S**t statements, maybe you should take a look at all of the children that have no families, whos families have abandoned them, who have no one that they can feel loved by, no one who they can turn to. Where is their god? is god feeding them? loving them? clothing them?? I looked at your profile, you should seriously grow up, live a day in the real world, you are 17, still so ignorant... poor little girl. AAARG!!! You are stupid, and i wont waste another minute on you.

Answer 3

That is so unfair to say. There are plenty of children to adopt for everyone. Wouldn't you want to save a life if you could? My adopted children are so amazing and I am forever grateful for getting them. I have 8 kids - 4 biological and 4 adopted. That's 8 total children. Doesn't sound to small to me. Think before you speak next time...thanks.

Answer 4

I don't have an answer any different from anyone else really.  Adoption should not be banned.  Those are some good scriptures above.  God never wanted us to use His love for everyone as an excuse to not love everyone ourselves or help those who are suffering.  He gives us a part to play and wants us to grow to be like Him.  If we leave God in charge of loving everyone without doing any loving ourselves, the world might as well end right now so that the suffering of such orphans can end.

Answer 5

No, adoptions are for everyone.

Kids need parents, no matter what. Even if the adoptive parent is fertile, they should be able to adopt, THEY'RE HELPING A CHILD!!!!! Yes, God is there for kids who don't have parents. And he's also there for families that want to adopt.

There are about 1,000,000 kids in the USA that need homes. Why bring another baby into this world. I  have nothing against birth, I just think that we should all consider adoption if we meet the requirements.

I'm infertile and when a fertile couple adopts a child, I'm happy for them. And you know why? Because regaurdless of weather or not they can have a baby, they saved a child's life.

All the best,

Tamara

Answer 6

Adoptions should NOT be banned.  LOL, YES, fertile people should be allowed to adopt children at any time as long as they can provide a good home for the child, pass a homestudy, etc., etc.



"Only infertile people should be allowed to adopt children." -- I totally disagree.

"Remember God is there for children who don't have parents."  Yes, He is there, but he has a plan for everyone who follows their hearts.  If a fertile woman/couple wants to adopt, and it's in their hearts, it's RIGHT.

Answer 7

well i guess everyone is intitled in their opinion..but WOW this one is a doozy.

i completely disagree..do  you even have a lue to how many children there are that DO NOT have families? and you are wanting to cut that possiblity of them being adopted in more than half?

your being incredibly selfish with your opinion on this matter...some  peope understand that MANY child have no homes so they want to give that child a different, better life.  so what if they are fertile?..they are being decent human beings..something of which..sorry to say you obviously are not.

Answer 8

If that's the case, we should ban birth control, periods, and every woman has to get pregnant whenever humanly possible.

Men aren't allowed to m********e.

Condoms should be illegal.

Every sperm must be used!

Do you realize how ridiculous you sound? Some people don't want to go through pregnancy and labor -- that's their right as a human being. It's their choice. They're giving a child a home that it may not have otherwise. Does it matter where the child goes as long as the child is taken into a happy, healthy home? Whether or not the parents are fertile is entirely irrevelent.

Answer 9

i do not understand why you would think this even for a minute..there are so many things i want to point out but i do not feel like typing that much so just a few

1.where would all the children go?

2.it is not up to you weather people have their own kids or their own through adoption (thankfully)

as i said there are so many reaons what you are saying is ridiculous..it really bewilders me..and yes their parents do have every right to not have them and they are not preventing them from anything..

wow

Answer 10

First of all my friend was adopted by her cousin, she wanted to have someone in the family adopt her, and chances are there isnt anyone is her immediat family that cant have kids, so if fertile people couldnt adopt she would either be living in a strangers house till shes 18 or living with her abusive dad, or her mother who got into a car accident and has to live in a mental ward because she has perminant brain damage...and for me i want to adopt, i figure i dont need to bring any more kids into this world while there are still many more out their who still need a home...and if you adopt dosnt mean you cant still have a kid of your own its nothing like using a condom if you were fertile when u adopted chances are you going to be fertile after you adopt to

Answer 11

No wonder this planet is in so much trouble.

Why add to a population boom when there are children in desperate need of a loving family, that are now being neglected through no fault of their own because their parents are unable to provide the basic necessities of life?

Your nothing more than a bible bashing nit twit who should know better!!

Answer 12

I do not believe adoptions should be banned. There are people out there that can have children that adopt, so that that child can have a life. Imagine what it must be like for a child to sit in a orphanage or in temp. care. It must be really nice for some one to come along and adopt them, whether they can have their own children or not.

Answer 13

We're talking about children who were never even conceived (you really think they care if they are here, they don't exist). It is not someone's responsiblity or purpose to make  a child. Of course new children need to be born to continue the species but we have plenty of people taking care of that.

Answer 14

well think of the otehr side why let a child be brought up in a bad situation or ven worse! when if they got adopted they would have a happy life? lets give a child that doesnt exist yet a good life and let the being ones suffer in a orphanige??? u make no sense. i have thort about that before but the truth is why let people suffer when they can be happy? and  no all orphanages teach  religion! so no to themgod doesnt love them. to them, who is god? n people need to be loved by people too!

and t is fully up to the parents weather they want to go through th laybor. some dont and  prefer to give another child a chance at living  a proper life! and what a bout all the orphans who mums and dads didnt  love them, didnt want them, died? i guess there just too bad? it there problem hey? NO!

u sound quite ignorant and inconsiderate.

Answer 15

Your avatar is an insult, LOL.  And you are narrow minded as well.  After reviewing your questions and answers, I have come to the conclusion that you are the spoiled brat of a family of holy rollers who's mind is as narrow as your bung hole.  You speak ill about those of us who CHOOSE to limit the number of children we have, calling our children psychopaths.  You need to STFU and go find something else to do because you're rather annoying.

Answer 16

Ok, I read your little 'about me' section, and see you're only 17. You really just have no idea what you're talking about because you're still a child yourself.

ETA: And as long as we're talking about God...Guess what! I, personally, believe that God put me on Earth to be raised by my (fertile) adoptive parents and not my (also fertile) biological parents!

Answer 17

You are a twisted little cookie aren't ya?  Adopting is a personal decision based on an individuals situation.  Why do you feel that you have the right to impose your misguided philosophies onto others?  Who died and left you dictator of adoptionland???  You seem a little off and I hope that you have no children to pass this craziness on to...adopted or biological!

Answer 18

are you thick or retarded or something? God is there for children who dont have parents? No! actually care home workers are there for the children and you are saying they shouldnt be adopted, so what you are saying is they should be left in a care home until they are 16 then they have got to look after themselves! God doesnt magically come down from the sky and look after them does he? I cant believe you are so dumb. I dont think people who adopt are preventing their own children coming into this world at all i have a 5 year old biological son and would adopt a child tomorrow. Grow up for gods sake

Answer 19

No, I think adoption should be available for anyone who desires to raise a child.  Biology is not everything.  And a child should remain unloved and alone just because you feel a biological child is more important?

And if the theory that god cares for the orphans is true, then there would be no abuse, no neglect, no starvation.  It is our responsibility to care for these innocent children

Answer 20

Wow, I won't call you stupid, I will say that you are ignorant.  Let's bring China into the fold.  Chinese people are only allowed to have one child, so if it is a girl then they are usually disappointed because they can't carry on the family name.  Those girls are usually sold into slavery, prostitution,  or abandoned.  Many of these girls were adopted by US parents who wanted a better life for someone, and raised them as one of their own with their own natural born kids.  Yeah, these parents are horrible people and I am sure god is going to send them straight to h**l.