Should be easy but why so hard???

Question

i know age 18 is not usually da age appropiate to be moving out but i already graduated from highschool & all my friends are going their own way & my family is seperated & i just feel i have nothing here for me anymore & me & my bf have been talking for 1 year about moving to texas with his mom cuz she is giving him da house but she is still going to be living there i loved it out there when i went for 2 weeks i actually wanted to stay...none of my family is okay with me moving but they all had a feeling i was my dad is mad & he has done so much for me its going to be hard without him he would always fix my car wen it didnt work always gave me advice taught me how to save & not waste im crying right now...this is a huge step but i know i can come visit whenever but the question is how do i know its wat i want it doesnt feel right cuz my family is not okay with it...everyone tells me family comes first but this time im first & im sure im not doing it cuz i want to do watever i want....

Answer 1

Ok, what you need to do is decide your priorities and sit down with your parents AND your boyfriend and his parents to see if this really the best choice for you. I wish you the best of luck. Email me with how it goes, if you have any other questions etc.. Once again good luck!

Answer 2

Well, I think in the end you will have to decide what's best for you, but I would caution you about moving to Texas. Living with someone else will be a whole new different ballgame. Especially with your bf's mother. Things can be weird. Sometimes we go with what's in our heart, but hearts are not always logical or rational. Go with your head, the rational part of you. Honestly, I would go to school, but if you're not ready you can work. I would like to believe that having an education will empower you to make your own choices if things don't work out.

Good Luck!