Should boys make the move for a first kiss? Or should girls? Easy 10?

Question

My boyfriend is away in the Marines.. He will be home in October.. Should I kiss him.. or let him kiss me?

We both are madly in love.

and I get butterflies thinking about kissing him!!!!

what can i do?

Answer 1

Well....i go about approaching a kiss by first filling out a form signed by both and sometimes 3 kissers. Then we dance around a bonfire burning an effigy of elmo and chant our ritual song of "Lemons shall be put in pencil cases..." then we line up and walk on top of ice cold mangos filled with glass flowers. After the mango walk we make a box and all of the kissers enter and say....Are you the computer mouse? Are you the computer mouse? Then one person is the computer mouse and he or she makes the first move.

Answer 2

just go ahead and kiss him :)  it doesnt matter who makes the first move  if you wanna kiss him then kiss him :)

Answer 3

If he doesn't try and kiss you when he gets back

Then try and kiss him

or when he comes back kiss him as soon as you see him

Answer 4

most boys make the first move but it doesnt matter!!! if you want to kiss him then kiss him!!!

Answer 5

either way

Answer 6

let him do it!! if u go straight for it he could just swat u away (i doubt it though) because hes tired from the flight to get home. plus i think it used to be so much more romantic when the guys always made the first move!!

Answer 7

When he gets back just throw your arms around him and give him a kiss.  It does not really matter who makes the move first.  Just let it be natural...I am sure that you both will be so glad to see each other it will be a very mutual and natural happening when you see each other for the first time....enjoy!  ;D

Answer 8

In MOST situations, the idea is to let him make the first move, but to make sure he KNOWS he can make the first move.

It's a bit of a catch 22, but it makes romance more interesting.

In THIS situation, however, I think you should kiss him. It'll let him know he was sorely missed.

However, please remember than as a Marine, his conduct is more restrictive than a civilians. He not allowed to show affection in public. And it is no laughing matter. It's part of the job.

So if you're meeting him at the airport, or a train station, or some other public place, realize that he may only hug you initially. Just let him take your arm and whisper to him that you can't wait for him to get you home so you can...ect.ect.ect.

Good Luck! And thank that Marine for his service on behalf of all of us!

Answer 9

well as long as yall will be apart that shouldn't even matter you both should be rushing to kiss each other .

Answer 10

Trust me, he's probably sitting down right now saying the same thing. Just kiss him, you want him, he wants you, do it. You'll be so happy once you do.

Answer 11

You should both just kiss eachother already! Doesn'tmatter hoo does it first just go for it!

Answer 12

i think the dad should make the first move to ensure their son has a respectful girlfriend. and then the mother should kiss the guy and then all make out with eachother.

RESULT!

Answer 13

It doesn't matter if your both madly in love then nothing else would matter. I would personally run up to my boyfriend and start kissing him if I hadn't seen him in a while

Answer 14

if u dont see him very often then just kiss him.......if ur madly in love then y should he care and y havent u kissed him yet!?!?

Answer 15

AWWW!!! Kiss him! Kiss him! Kiss him! Be proud of your soldier!

Answer 16

well i think you both should kiss each other... :3

Answer 17

I think you will know when it's time to kiss. You look straight into his eyes, and he looks straight into yours. Then you keep looking at his eyes then his lips, and he does the same. Then you guys lean in and BAM it happens ( : I remember I was very nervous when Me and my boyfriend were going out. But after we kissed.. hehe...we couldn't stop!!!!

Answer 18

WOW! Don't think to much about who should kiss first. If you are madly in love wait for him to go for the kiss. If he doesn't it's your turn :D

Best Wishes!

-Sniffles

Answer 19

Let him give you the first kiss! Trust me it will be more romantic! It's a cute love story you two have so let him kiss you, and if it feels right, you could live happily ever after! LOL!

Answer 20

let him kiss you it will be more romantic and that way you will no that he wants to kiss you, its the guys job

Answer 21

dont worry about it most of the time the guys will make the move!

they want it bad too so they will go for it!

Answer 22

it doesn't matter who makes the first move. Just kiss him already (:

Answer 23

I think that in this predicament, the best solution would be to simply go for it, but go through with it with caution. By that i mean that you should know when the right time to kiss him would be. Try to set the mood and capture the right moment. When you have set the right mood, it won't matter whom kisses whom. Give him small hints to let him know that you want to kiss. Besides, it won't hurt your relationship; quite the contrary, it will only make it stronger. So just know when the right time is!! Good Luck! :)

Answer 24

you do it !!! it'll say, "WELCOME BACK TO THE USA!!" like no other!!! hahah.

Answer 25

Doesn't matter! traditionally guys did it but who cares!

Answer 26

let him make the move, i made the move on my first kiss. just dont rush it, wait until the moment is right.

Answer 27

well you should let him make the move first to see if hes still into you

Answer 28

just do it, since u are both madly inlove, and he might be the shyer one

Answer 29

run and kiss him.

It doesnt matter who makes the move as long as its made.