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My husband and i are expecting our first child in Sept. (A BOY!) We are very excited and want this to be a completely natural experience so we aren't going to have any pain killers nor am i going to have an IV. Now the problem comes with this... I want my mother in the delivery room with us. Now this isn't one of those son in law hates mother in law kind of things in fact they adore each other and talk constantly. How ever my husband doesn't want her in the room when i actually start pushing. He said's that it is fine while im in labor and just waiting for the contractions to get bigger and such but once the doctor is like ok start pushing that she leave the room. I can understand that he wants to have this moment just between us but i think its werid or odd and maybe even alil rude to have her come all the way to korea( we are stationed here and it where ill be giving birth) to see the birth and all she gets to act in is the waiting around for me to push and then is hustled out of the room when i start pushing and then helps us after wards with the baby at home... Does this seem alil werid to you guys??? Is it bad that i want my mom and husband in the room when i give birth? Am i being selfish? on a side note im 19 and this is my first child and although this is not her first grandchild(my 28yr old sister has a 2yr old) i still think she would like to see her grandchild born. What do you guys think?
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