Should everyone get to experience living alone?

Question

or should you move from your parents right to your spouse?

Answer 1

well it isnecessary to live alone for some time atleast... i started respecting my family more once i was out alone for two years...we can know pros and cons of living with some one and alone only when we exprience both... so yes it is good if we experience...

Answer 2

Well, it depends on the type of person. Although, living alone for awhile could make you more independant/life experienced in a few ways.

I would rather spend some time alone, enjoying the freedom instead of immediately jumping into a relationship.

Answer 3

Depends on your preference. I like being independent I don't mind the idea of living alone and in fact I think I would relish the freedom.  

Answer 4

Some people can not manage expenses well enough to live alone. Some dont like the emotional challenges. Those who do live become very different people given time and have to struggle in life . Unfortunately the homeless have to live alone after years of medications.

Answer 5

If you enjoy just being alone and want to get some time away from your spouse, try living alone for awhile. If not, live with him. I personally love being left alone, but would move with my boyfriend the second I move away from parents.

Answer 6

I think that it helps you find out your own stengths. It feels good to know that you can make it on your own even if you don't have to. Personally, I turned down my ex-fiance after college so that I could live alone an find myself. I'm glad that I did too. He is still very co-dependant and married someone that he didn't really love because he didn't want to be alone. I'm glad that I'm not that person, because how could I ever really know if he loved me? Ultimately, I think that living alone earns you more self respect than jumping right into another co-dependant relationship.  

Answer 7

Depends on peoples personal preference.

& in this day & age, income would play a major role in whether people live alone or not.

Answer 8

I think so.  I think it would be a good idea to get used to paying the bills and running your own independent life before you take on the responsibility of marriage.

Answer 9

i think living alone for awhile is the best way to go personally.

Answer 10

Just my judgment but going straight from parent's home to spouse's sounds like you're a bit young to be married... unless you're the 40 year old virgin or something.  Seriously, I think there is real value in living on your own.  It can help you find yourself which in turn will better all your relationships.

Answer 11

Yes, the animal kingdom makes it a necessity for animals to make their own way and the same goes with people.  Do you thing Bull Elephant is going to stay with the female herd?  He goes away.  When you live next to mommy and daddy it makes it WAY too easy to go to them for things you need to be doing yourself.  Plus, they are somewhat involved in your affairs more.