often, we hear about attorneys and SWs being "shared" by both paps and pfmoms/pfparents during the adoption process. even with the best intentions (having the paps leave the room while the attorney meets with pfmoms/pfparents, et al) , it seems odd that two sides would be equally represented by the same entity. especially when in no other legal proceeding is this the norm (e.g. divorce, child custody, civil, criminal, et al). i just wonder if people believe that pfmoms/ pfparents are "truly" being represented when the attorneys and SWs are usually hired by paps, work for the adoption agency; or are "adoption attorneys."
thoughts?
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paps= potential adoptive parents
pfparents= potential first parents
pfmoms=potential first moms
SW=social worker
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