Should he go to pre school?

Question

My family and I have just moved states. I want to settle my 3yr old into a routine one of which will be 1 day a week at pre school.

When I try to take him he always says no. Is it that beneficiall to him or should I keep him at home with me. I just want to do the right thing by him.

Answer 1

i think it would be wonderful for him to be in a preschool.  he will learn alot

Answer 2

Preschool can be a good experience for some children, but it certainly isn't necessary. Many children do not go and they do just fine going straight into kindergarten.

Can you find a parent co-op preschool where parents spend more time volunteering in the classroom? Or maybe a "mommy and me" type program? The way you said it sounds like he's there for a full day. That can be way too long. Maybe find a part-time program or just a fun class (like swimming, art, or creative movement) that only meets for an hour or so.

If you keep him home with you, be sure to do lots of things with him. Go to the library frequently. Read to him often throughout the day. Involve him in all the things you do, like cooking or cleaning. Visit local attractions (museums, zoos, historical sites). Enroll him in classes like Gymboree, Kindermusik, and other programs likely offered in your city. Maybe find a group for parents that's active in planning activities for the children.

My dd and I were involved in a moms' group. We were constantly having playdates, special events, and outings. When we weren't with them, dd and I were out and about, pursuing our interests. She did go to preschool, but only for the year before kindergarten. She went 3 mornings a week for 2 1/2 hrs per day.  

Answer 3

I think he should because he will still have to go to school in the coming years so unless you are planing to to home school your son I don't see why you should wait till next year. Just be firm but understanding he will eventuality get use to school as a regular routine.

Answer 4

Part of your routine does not need to include Preschool.  If he wants to stay with you, let him. You just moved.  Let him have a year of being with you and doing some little classes- library, gymnastics, art, or kindermusic.  Give him the gift of time.  Time to be with you, and time to adjust to his new surroundings.  Send him to Preschool next year, when he's 4.  If you are really in doubt, you could send him to Preschool after Christmas vacation. He could do half the year.  You would have to take whatever they had in terms of openings, but kids start all through the year, just like at regular school.    

Answer 5

As a pre-school teacher, I see this a lot. He may just be experiencing separation anxiety. It's completely normal for children to do this. I would say keep taking him to pre-school, he will benefit a lot it. Hope that helps you out.  

Answer 6

Who's the parent?  He's three.  He will get use to the routine and most likely will enjoy being with other children.  I would suggest if you are able to  to put him in for more then once a week (2-3 times) until he gets used to it and then drop him down to one day.

Answer 7

yes, preschool is wonderful, my 4 year old niece was in a school like that, and she is so smart now til its scary, and i was also in preschool when little and it was amazingly beneficial..oh by the way my niece knows spanish and her abc's A-Z..and she is only 4!

Answer 8

I don't think anyone can tell you whether or not preschool is right for your child but you.  With that being said...Is the preschool in a school or a daycare/preschool setting?  My daughter went to the Early Learning Program at the elementary school here at 3 and I know that if the kids weren't potty trained, then it was suggested that they wait..it's not the teacher's job to change wet clothes.  Also, does your child interact much with other children outside his family?  If not, then preschool might be a great thing for him.  I have a friend whose son is 6 months younger than my daughter but hasn't gone to either yr of preschool like she has and since it's such a small town (2200 ppl) I worry that he'll be left behind because the other kids in his grade will have already spent 2 yrs together learning and forming relationships.  That probably is just due to it being a tiny community though.  If your child adjusts well, plays and interacts well with others now..I wouldn't worry.  If he has issues with sharing, issues with direction following and group situations..It might be a great thing for him AND his mom!  Best of Luck!

Answer 9

it will be beneficial to place your son in preschool. preschool is not only important to help teach children basics...but it teaches them socialization. it also teaches routine. all of these are necessary skills for when he starts kindergarten. though it may seem hard to leave him at first, he will adjust to routine and become comfortable staying. i would even suggest taking him maybe more than one day a week...maybe two or three. that way there is not so much time between visits. it is scary for him at first...a lot of children experience seperation anxiety, but give it time. i PROMISE it will get better.

good luck!!! :)