Should i Accept This ?

Question

My ex textd my best friend cause i had to block him cause at the time i couldnt get ova him so now he told my bestfriend to tell me to get ahold of him so when i unblocked him i texted him and asked him what he wanted and he said he wanted to tell me that he was sorry for been an *** to me and his sorry for hurtin me cause he always put me down but this is like out of the blue i havent talked to him in like 4 months until 2day so should i accept his apology? But see me and him has had our ups and downs and he has had more than 5 chances with me now and im in love with a totally different guy but see he doesnt know this and if his looking for a friendship i think he would want more than i know he wants..... but yea i just want to really know what should i do his my first love and his the one i lost my virginty we was 2gether for 10 months back and forth please tell me should i accept

Answer 1

yes

Answer 2

You should accept his apology, but you should not get back together with him. I'm sure if you did for a while he would be nicer, but he would eventually go back to his old ways. Men rarely change. If this new guy is treating you well, you should stay with him. Your ex is just jealous and probably misses you. Don't feel sorry for him, if he treated you right you will still be together.

Good Luck!

Answer 3

Of course accept his apology.....but don't let him back into your life.  Unfortunately you have history with this guy (lost virginity, 1st love), but from the sounds of things, most of that history wasn't positive.    Your ex has probably found himself alone again and is using you as a "backburner".  He's shown himself for what he is to you....and if he was truly sorry, it wouldn't have taken him 5 occasions to change his behavor and treated you right.  You've moved past him and found a new love....accept the apology, keep moving and don't look back.  Much luck :)