Should i Take him back?

Question

Me and my babydaddy recently broke up about 2 months ago, and i found out he was tryen to work things back out with his ex, but now i guess he wants to come back to me. Ever since we broke up he's been clubin it and messing with girls. This last couple days he says he misses me and his son and wants to come back, wat should i do?

Answer 1

NO.

He'll do it over and over again..

and the only one who will suffer is the kid...just imagine the pain of seeing his dad with other women and you crying..

its better to be separated and him just visiting his child

Answer 2

Is he the kind of man you and your son need in your lives?  Be honest to yourself when you answer this question.  Is a good MAN and DADDY someone who has been "clubin it" and "messing with girls"  My answer would be no, but you may have different standards for you and your child.  You need to remember what is most important in this situation, and that is the well being of YOU and your Child!  Now, maybe I'm completely wrong, but your description of him is not very flattering.  Move on, show him that you need a real man.  There are plenty of great men out there who you will never have to worry about this kind of c**p with.  If you stay with him, things probably won't change and you will continue to break up, get back together, break up, get back together.  That is not a stable family life for you or your child.  Move on, and if its truely ment to be, he will change, but you will be able to tell that away from him.  And it probably won't happen in a week or 2 either.  It took years for my now huband to change, and believe me, it was well worth the wait!!!  I hope you make the right decision.  

Answer 3

you should allow for him to see his son. i'm sure he has rights. but i would advise for you not to take him back. ppl tend to repeat themselves and chances are, if you take him back, he'll do the same thing to you again.

Answer 4

did you break up with him?

or did he break up with you?

i would get back together with him

okayy:)

Answer 5

My personal opinion would be to not take him back. He obviously has run out of luck and is running back because he knows you're the safe option and will most likely take him back for the sake of your child.

Don't give in to it. If he really missed you he would have been back sooner rather than going out and trying to find another girl to mess around with.

Also, if you two were together and he was trying to get back with his ex, h**l no. I'm sorry to say that he's coming to you because he's got no where else to go, and once he find's another opportunity to try and get some from someone else he'll go for it!

So no, don't go back. Be the stronger, wiser one and tell him to get lost. You and your baby deserve better, no one should be treated that way!!!

Best of luck hon, you're gonna need it.

Answer 6

Deal with the pain and do what is best for your child. It may mean letting his/her father be in there life not neccesarily in yours. It'll hurt but if he isn't going to respect you, you need to respect yourself enough by not allowing him to play with your emotions...You are strong enough to deal with the c**p then you're strong enough to respect yourself and move on...

Answer 7

Nope.

It seems like things didn't work out between him and his ex, so he's running back to you, show him the door.

Answer 8

Don't take him back. For one you deserve a lot better and for two if you take him back i can almost guarantee you that it is going to be an up and down roller coaster just like this. He's going to play the part of being a good father and taking care of you for one month but then sooner or later he wont be coming back home at night and he'll be out with his boys all night at the club. He needs to make up his mind because he obviously doesn't know what he wants. You don't need him you can be a very strong independent mother. Sooner or later you will find the man that will sweep you off your feet put you up on a pedestal, cherish you and will never let anything bad happen to you.