Should i ask my dad when I will hit puberty

Question

i am 14 and in september i start highschool and im sure that lots of other kids are going to have chest hair and deep voices however i do not. :( .............. I want to get a good idea of when im going to hit puberty and i thought that i should ask my dad when he did i mean i share his dna so i will probly hit it when he hit it. Should i ask my dad or wait it out because i have been showing some signs of starting it like a little bit of underarm hair light hairs around my belly button and many more pop ups if you know what i mean lately.

Answer 1

Yes. U can tell ur father or ur older brother (if u had). It's ok if u tell ur father bcause he (absolutely) knows more about that (he has ever experienced it).

But u can also send me an email at [e-mail] to ask further about s*x. I'm a s*x counselor and I hope I can help u...

Answer 2

There is no problem. It is an individual delay in puberty.

Answer 3

Asking your father probably won't do much to enlighten you on this. Growth hormones and steroids in meat have accelerated the rate people develop, and you are still your own person. I can tell you from my own experience that you're getting real close. My voice got deep when I was 13, but I didn't get much body hair until I was 16. You've already started, so just be patient.  

Answer 4

i think you're worrying too much. chest hair and your voice's depth are irrelevant, because like everyone else at your school you're still developing. you technically have no control over how you develop (besides eating healthy, getting 8-9 hours of sleep daily and exercising) so if some r****d wants to make fun of you because your voice hasn't changed yet...then let them. that's a stupid thing to tease someone over. the people that matter aren't going to give you any trouble over these things.

about puberty...it sounds like you already started. if you mean you're getting a lot of erections by "pop ups" then that's a pretty good sign you already hit it. though my voice deepening was probably my first change, it might be your last one. everybody is different, so try to remember that. hope this helped. :)

Answer 5

Talking to your dad is the very best thing you can do.  He's been through this and wants the best for you.  As a dad, we are not always sure when to have these talks with our sons and if you're ready, and it sounds like you are, I strongly encourage you to let him know.  If you'll just start the conversation, I'm sure he'll tell you everything you need to know.  I think it's great that you're comfortable talking with your dad.

Answer 6

Yur starting puberty Dude, with new hairs and more spontanious Mr. Happy pop ups! Hahaha!

It's funny, cuz we don't all come togeter in the same order in puberty, or the same events timing, but in the end it all comes together.

The belly button hair will soon extend down in a line to yur special place! Yur on yur way Dude! U could talk to yur Dad anyway if U wanted! Dads feel good when you talk about this stuff with them! Don't hurt none, and its always .. good to keep him on yur side! Family matters huge .....for life.....or it should!

Me :- )

Answer 7

wait a little while and if nothing happens ask your dad