Should i ask out a girl that i have been friends with a long time?

Question

I've known for bout 3-4 years and we've been good friends for this time. i've had a small crush on her over the years, but now i'm having stronger feelings about her. But i don't know if she'll say yes or totally object me.

Answer 1

Drop hints.  Ask her things like, "What would it have been like if we had dated?"  If she laughs and says, "Yeah right,"  then you have your answer.  If she says, "I don't know?"  Then you might have a shot.  But you'll have to ask her, if you don't, another guy will steal her away and you will never get that chance again.  So go for it, you have my support.  Good luck!

Answer 2

u shouldn't ask her out unless ur confident she'll say yes. if u ask her, but she rejects u, then that would affect ur relationship and things might not be the same. if u really feel strongly for her, and it's worht the risk, then u hav to try or u might regret not asking later