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Should i back off as this girl i like knows i fancy her..?

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Alright, there's this girl i like who i've been getting to know recently and it was going quite well (got her number :D), however her friends then told her i liked her. This was really annoying as i wanted to get to know her as a friend, see where it goes from there and then tell her my feelings.

I apologised to her about it as she was abit concerned i fancied her without knowing her too well, however once i said sorry and let her know what i felt she didn't seem to mind about my feelings..

Is this a good sign/should i still try get to know her alot better then see how she feels about having a relationship

or

back off for the time being and give her abit of space to think about what i said to her...

advice please :D x

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  1. Go for it! If she doesn't mind, then surely that's an invitation for something more...


  2. my advice would be to summarise and try to relate your 'interesting' tale in point form if possible. For whiny teen puppy love, i say grow up. For s*x-related questions, i say use a condom for jesus sake! Good evening. Nelson M.

  3. Naa move on shes obviously not intrested..

    My advice to you is goto a strip club. Dont think about tomorrow. Get wasted. Take a girl home and sing sweet home alabama all summer long.

    Hope that helps?

  4. hiya crazy ail, i would just back of till she in touch with you.if she has not got in touch with you say in a weeks time, then talk to her again.ask her if she would like to go cinema/bowling, or what ever you want to do.she would have had 1 week to make her mind up if she liked you or not,that's plenty of time.she might be in a relationship?you will just have to follow your heart.good luck,have fun.xx

  5. well chap, if she already knows you fancy her, then go for it, dont be daft

  6. Ask her out, there's not turning back now, now that she knows you fancy her.

  7. back off for the time being, ya kno? Give her some space and some time to collect her thoughts and her feelings.

  8. don't get to close and personnel to her, or shell get freaked out! just every now and then see her have a chat do something but don't get too clingy, then when she thinks your her Friend and she trusts you, bang! afterwards tell her you want to meet up with her, then say you was sorry about liking her when i knew nothing about her! shell feel sorry, then say to her that you want to be more than Friends and bang! shell agree to test you and from there on, make her wish shed been out with you earlier on! (trust me ive been in the same position!)  

  9. If she doesn't avoid you because she knows that you like her from now on she might like you back!

    You should keep trying to get to know her and if she seems alright with that, then you should ask her out after a while!!

    :]


  10. yeah no point loosing her now, go for it. ask her out. dude get in their befor she falls for someone else. thats the mistake i made. u dnt know what u got till its gone.

  11. dude you're in.

    She likes you just keep doing what you're doing and it will all be fine.

  12. don't back out, but don't go in.

    she will feel really weird if you just start suddenly avoiding her, because she will think that you don't like her at all, and will question you about what's happening. guys don't like to be questioned; girls often don't want to know the answer.

    she will also feel kind of (not "really", but "kind of") weird if you keep or increase your pace on gathering information about her. just please don't get all in her face, or it will be HER turn to avoid you.

    treat her as a friend. if you are her friend, anyway, you wouldn't want her to feel uncomfortable.

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