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Should i be best friends?

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okay ive been best friends with this girl for 4 years. all the guys i liked, right in front of me, she always would flirt and pretend like im not there. we went to a football game and her ex bf was there and i was there and my ex was hitting on other girls so i was walking away and was hysterically crying. she was with her ex kissing the whole night. i had2 call her and ask her to come over. and then she was with her ex the rest of the night when i really needed her. also i feel like im competing with her. shes so spoiled and gets anything she wants. my family has enough money to get by and spoils me a little during christmas. but i cant get money handed to me everytime i go out. i usually pay for her starbucks which is 5 dollars each time. she never says thankyou. and she gets a ******* attitude if i ask her to get me something. i spent at least over 200 ******* dollars on the stupid *****. nd everytime i get excited because im going to get something, she gets it right after me. like i paid for my tiffany necklace w. my xmas money and she was like wow i would never pay that much for jewlery and neither would my parents and a week later shes on tiffanys online saying all this **** is cute nd how shes gonna get it. i got an ipod classic and was soo happy b.c i neva had an ipod b4(i paid it wit my own money). and like a week later she was like oh i got a new ipod=] i put 100 towards it. well its 250 for the ones we got. everything i mention, she gets before me or after. and i want a chi straightener for this xmas and i told her and shes like oh im gettin one for easter 2 days later after i told her i want one. and she thinks she knows everything about it meanwhile she never used a chi straightener before. i feel like **** when she gets stuff i relle want or alredy have. and i bring her w. me everywheree. if she wasnt friends wit the ppl i am, shed be an outcast. my familys always like oh how is she and she finds out about stuff familywise b4 me. ex- my aunts baby shower. my friend brought it up to me, not my mother. i have another bestfriend but she lives further. i kinda wanted to be friends with this one throughout college too. im sophmore year. she gets me so angry but then i have nobody else thats cross fingers close with. she never tells me anythinggg! she waits till 3 months after something happens. ive been going through h**l this month and everytime i txt her she has her phone on her but never answers. i feel like she knows everything about my life but i dont know anything about hers. idk what to do anymore. i told her about this and shes like oh i didnt realize im sorry blah blah but that exuse is getting old. what do i do?

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  1. i dont no she doesnt sound much like a friend to me


  2. ok i've been in your sitiation b4, don't be friends with her, it's not worth it trust me

  3. i had a "friend" like that, her family was rich and she would brag about everything she got and she knew i was saving for it and stuff, since my family is not very wealthy.

    just stop hanging out with her is she bugs you this much. she is just a wast of your time.


  4. too long to read


  5. I think you should first talk to her about the way that she has been acting. Of course do it in a nice way. If things don't work out, then I guess you should tell her that the friendship isn't working out, and you two seem to be drifting apart. Let her down easy, no matter how much you don't like her. She doesn't seem to be a very good friend to me.

  6. You don't deserve to be treated like that. Even if you were once best friends with her, she is obviously not grateful about having you in her life, and that's not okay! Maybe try hanging out with some other people and she might come around. If she doesn't then she's not worth having in your life. Surround yourself with people who make you happy, not ones who make you this upset.

  7. No way, she is a terrible friend and she needs to be there for you through all the tough times, no matter what guy is there with her.


  8. Show her this question

    I recomend not being friends with her because in the end

    you'll relize that you should of stopped being friends a long time ago

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