Should i be close friend with g*y?

Question

I think i'm bicurious but almost g*y.i don't want to be g*y but g*y people always approaching me and want to make friends with me.it's not that i don't like them but i don't want to be g*y and i'm afraid i'm influenced by them.i'm the person who is easily influenced.how do i deal with this?

Answer 1

I think its ok to be friends with g*y people.just let them know ur not that kind of person but let them know by doing it in a very nice manner.i think most g*y people are friendly.

Answer 2

Don't listen to the people above: you might not be g*y. If you know what bicuriousity is, then you will be sure you are not g*y.

It's all about if YOU feel very comfortable around them. If you don't, then avoid them.

Answer 3

face ir YOU ARE g*y

Answer 4

Just make friends with them, just because they're g*y doesn't make them any different to you, they're still good peoples (Y)

Answer 5

ask yourself and try to be honest with yourself,,, if you see that you like to try go for it and have g*y friends,, perhaps ur identity is g*y,,, and if not try to find a GF and enjoy ur life ,,,

Answer 6

You are what you are.

Now, people believe different things, but i believe that if you are str8, talking to (or even associating with) g*y people can in no way make you g*y.

So, if you are g*y, then i think they cannot have made you g*y.

if anything, they could have made you aware of it.

Answer 7

Why dont you stop lying and admit that your g*y?

Answer 8

You could be friends with whoever you want to that you know they won't cause you harm..having a g*y friend won't make u g*y. it's not a disease, being g*y just means he like guys and thats about it..don't let him do anything you don't want to

Answer 9

see  phycologist you have some serious problems not to be rude

it has nothing to do with the g*y thing if your that easily influenced then you have no idea if your g*y or straight

and if your scared of catching "g*y" then shouldn't you be scared you'll just be influenced by straight people too

what's the difference

Answer 10

dont get too close and get a gf

Answer 11

get a hot girlfriend.

Answer 12

Blunt answer: Don't discriminate and be your own person.

Real answer: You ARE your own person, and being influenced is a choice. If your friends are g*y, doesn't mean you are. Don't not make friends because you're scared. Its the same thing as someone who is 'popular' not talking to a 'geek' because they don't want any association with them. It's understandable that you're worried. You don't have to be anything you don't want to be, so if you're still not comfortable-leave it. If you keep coming back to it, then maybe it's time to reconsider your doubts and maybe your sexual orientation.

If you're getting the vibe that someone is a potential friend, don't ignore it, because it shouldn't matter who it's coming from! If you're getting a vibe that warns you that they are 'interested,' then you may want to reconsider.

I really hope this helps, but remember, this is influencing you too. The final decision is yours- for both listening to me, and for making friends.  

Answer 13

You may be trying to avoid who you really are. You said yourself that you are curious so until you answer your own curiosity it will always be there. Either find a girlfriend or try a night out with a g*y. Does not mean you have to go home with them or take them home. Just a dinner out may be enough to answer yourself.

Answer 14

Avoid them.

Answer 15

You can't choose when and when not you think you're g*y, if you're attracted to someone of the same s*x then just deal with it. It's no big deal.

Answer 16

dude! your bi already,so you are going to fancy them if they appeal to you. making friends with them should not change that!

Answer 17

Give into it.  You're g*y.  You'll be a lot happier when you finally admit it to yourself.

Answer 18

there is nothing wrong being friends with them but I wouldn't have them as your only friends. Let them know you are not interested in them only friendship.

Answer 19

If your not g*y there shouldn't be anything wrong with it. Let him deal with his problem and you live your life the right way. But dont let him convert you.

Answer 20

Be yourself. If you're getting a friend vibe, it shouldn't matter who it's coming from, be their friend! If it's a sexual vibe, that's another story. If they do something that makes you uncomfy, don't be afraid to tell them.

hope this helped! xD

Answer 21

There's nothing wrong with being friends with anyone. And if its something you know you don't want to do then don't. But if your uncomfortable around them then be friendly but don't chill with them.  

Answer 22

like if u hang out with a g*y guy a lot u probably will start adapting and u mite turn g*y.because they mite start asking u question like is that guy cute to u over their.and then u start adapting and stuff but i say no because you'll probably start to have that girly ascent.start to act different to guys. and junk like that

Answer 23

Try and realize who you really are, if you're g*y, don't hide it. Come out with it. I'm sure you'll feel alot better after. Why try to be someone you're not?

Answer 24

Accept it. Lying takes a lot more work than being truthful. If you're g*y, you're g*y. If you're straight, you're straight. If you're bi, you're bi. It doesn't matter. Just don't miss out on opportunities of meeting good people. You never know who you're going to meet, and you never know who you could fall in love with.  

Answer 25

Your not g*y just cause you hang,talk,or even look at them you just probably want to know why they act the way they do and it's totally fine to hang out. That doesn't mean your g*y though if you do besides don't judge a book by it's cover you might want to open it up and read it it might be the best thing that happen to you.

Answer 26

there's nothing wrong with g*y people. you should still be friends with them.

Also if you are g*y it shouldn't matter. You're still the same person!

Answer 27

Honey, let me start by saying that just because you choose to ignore it, doesn't mean it's going to go away. It's not something you can run from. It's your sexuality. No one can persuade you to go either way and no matter how many girls you manage to sleep with or how many times you tell yourself "no, I'm not g*y", the reality of it is that you are. You can't be influenced by it. It's something that I believe is naturally instilled within you. Staying away from g*y people won't prevent you from becoming something you already are. If you want to make friends, make friends. If you want to keep lying to yourself, that's fine too.