Should i be concerned if my girlfriend is using phrases like "when we get married"?

Question

i moved in with her even though she stalked me on yahoo answers, but is she going too far?

Answer 1

Apparently, you didnt mind the stalking since you moved in with her afterwards. But as far as her assuming you are getting married, maybe you could slip it in that that you arent looking to get married any time soon. Its only fair that she know that now.  

Answer 2

You should be VERY concerned.

Next she's going to want joint bank accounts, a key to your car and monogrammed towels.

I think you need to put your foot down before it gets out of hand.

(Besides, everyone knows once you get married there's no more s*x, and you don't want that now, do you?)

Answer 3

ooookay.  i'll bite.  if your ultimate goal was not marriage, why would you have moved in with her?  sounds like you and she need to have a serious talk as you are not on the same page.  you also might want to think about moving out.  as you have posted this on yahoo answers, you are obviously hoping that she reads this.  don't take the woosy way out.  talk to her, mono y mono and get everything on the table.

Answer 4

"I Married My Stalker".....hmmm....that's quite a catchy title. Let us know how it goes and how much you get for the movie rights.......

Answer 5

You shouldn't have moved in with her if you aren't planning on getting married to her one day.

Answer 6

Hmm...Let's think....YES! You should be concerned! It seems like she's planning a wedding. So if that's not your intention, you need to tell her right away.

Answer 7

You've moved in with her and given her the impression that there is more.  If you have not proposed and do not intend do you better sit her down and have a heart to heart talk and then be prepared to move out.

Answer 8

alright, when we get married i wont say that anymore.

Answer 9

no shes not going too far someone has gave her the impression that this is possible  

Answer 10

You got sucked in when you moved in sucker . What did you think you was getting a free ride ?  

Answer 11

Oh, c'mon... She got you out of Texass! She did you a favor.

You live near the beach, you're a boss-man, and life is good. So what if she yanks your chain now and again? I think you should stop worrying and marry the woman already.

Answer 12

depends do you want to marry her?  How do you feel about this... don't let someone talk you into doing something you don't want to do you will only hold it against them in the future and it's not their fault.  

Answer 13

Obviously she has certain ideas about where your relationship is headed.  If those ideas do not match your own, then you need to be honest with her.  To allow her to think you are headed for marriage, even if she came up with all on her own, in a way is leading her on.

Answer 14

hello what is the next thing after moving in with someone "marriage"  than kids or vice a versa!lol  

Answer 15

I would've been worried back when she was stalking you, that should have told you enough. sorry but that's my honest opinion.