Should i be concerned that my bf and father of my baby talks and sends pics to his ex and says he doesnt?

Question

i asked why they had been sending pics back and forth to eachother, and he flipped out and let and went to the bar all night long.when hes out of town he barely talks to me. i guess i think i know the answer just need to hear something uplifting!

Answer 1

if nothing was going on he would be able to answer why in a reasonable way. so i think something else

Answer 2

not very uplifting but get rid of him, hes lying.

Answer 3

You know.. seems to me you need a self esteem boost, Im not about to sugar coat anything for you.. how can you be uplifted when you are being mistreated? I suggest you take a long look in the mirror and realize what you are worth. You need to know that you deserve better, and if he gets upset about you asking about her then sorry to say babe but.. most likely, he is still involved with her.. good luck and hold your head up.. dont let a man break you down!

Answer 4

Your question clearly exhibits that he is lying to you.  So that would be a concern, regardless if anything is "going on" with them.   But trust your instincts.  You have voiced them here.  The fact that you know the answer to your own question makes it difficult to give you the answer that you WANT.  Best of luck to you.  Remember to take care of you and your baby.

Answer 5

yes you should. but at the same time the more you push him the more he will want further way from you. but i would push cause ether he wants what you guys have or he dont

Answer 6

Someone who is doing nothing wrong, doesn't hide it. I was fully honest with my now ex0husband about sending pictures of me, my wedding and my newborn to an ex of mine (who happens to be my best guy friend also). I didn't do anything wrong, so I didn't feel the need to hide it.

On the opposite side, he was chatting with his ex often, sending pics of himself, but was hiding it from me, and when confronted would lie. Turns out he was telling her he loved her and wanted her and things like that. So.. When someone lies, hides the truth, it's because they aren't doing what they are supposed to!

Answer 7

kill him in his sleep

Answer 8

What kind of pictures?

If there was nothing going on I don't see why he would have flipped out and went to the bar all night. You do know the answer, hun. Its hard when there's a baby involved though. He panicked because he was caught off guard and had no alibi. Don't let him give that invasion of privacy **** either, because the only guys I've ever dated that had 'privacy issues' were trying to hide an affair.

You don't need him, and your child doesn't need to be raised in that kind of setting. It could totally mess your kid up.

Answer 9

someone your involved with should always be honest. People get defensive when they have something to hide. Love yourself regardless because in the long run you and the child are all that matters. I don't mean that in a selfish way. I just mean you have to do what is right for you and I am not so sure that this guy is! Good Luck to  you.

Answer 10

well, it could be one of two reasond...... there could be nothing going on and he simply wants to remain friends with his x, as some people do believe it or not, and his not telling you the truth because your a total bi.....tch and will presume the worst...........all scenaro two, he aint tellin you because he secretly is still in love with his x but he knows he cant act on it cuz he knocked you up which is basicly worse then marraige.  Hope this helps :)

Answer 11

if nothing was going on he would be able to answer why in a reasonable way