Should i be honest to my friend? what should i do?

Question

My best friend has been asked out by so many guys in our year since year 8, however, most of the time she isnt interested in the person. Every year, a guy would get her roses for her birthday, basically any special occasion, and she would take the gifts, but the thing is she wouldnt show any signs whether or not if she likes him or show gratitude for the gifts. At times, i feel as though she take advantage of him and use him to get what she wants and at the same time try to attract other guys (i dunno if she is trying to make the guy jealous), however, i've tried talking to her, and i try to bring him closer to her, but nothing seems to work.

Should i tell her how i feel? what's the best thing to do?

Answer 1

fuiudt

Answer 2

it sounds like your friend doesnt know much about the "right" feeling for someone and is just using a guy for the presents you get outta having a boyfriend

i think you should talk to her but dont be to harsh or you will loose your friend

Answer 3

HER LIFE, HER DECISIONS, YOU CAN GIVE HER ADVICE BUT YOU CANT FORCE HER TO TAKE IT, SHE'LL LEARN EVENTUALLY, DONT KEEP GETTING ON HER ABOUT IT, JUST DO YOU

Answer 4

did she make it him, her and you or is it just him and her then you and her. think about it. tmm

Answer 5

Maybe you should talk to the guy and asked him what he gets out of this "relationship" with your friend. Maybe he likes the way she treats him? I don't think you should bring this up to your friend. She might get upset with you or accuse you of being jealous or of liking the guy. But if you feel strongly about this situation then just let her know how you feel and try to convince her to cut the poor guy a break.