Should i be hurt or just ungrateful??/?

Question

It is my ten year anniversary next year, every year my husband is good about gifts or surprise family trips but next year he said no trips or presents we are buying a house i agreed, but at same time i was hurt it is years of ups and down it should be special right??

Answer 1

he is probable trying to throw u off. he's probable going to surprise u  

Answer 2

Your husband is trying to be practical. A lot of people can't manage to buy a house. Be glad that you can.

Sit down and talk to your husband about your anniversary. Agree on a way that you can celebrate without a bunch of cost. You could just have a simple dinner at home. And you could make homemade gifts for each other, or even just write each other a little note telling them how much your marriage has meant to you.

Be glad you have a responsible husband. A lot of women don't have that.

Answer 3

Hey I am kind of going thru the same thing, as it is my 28th bday on Saturday, and every year I am used to  something real special from my husband, but this year we both agreed that a movie and a nice dinner at home would be great, and no kids lol. this is bc we need to save money to buy a house as well. Just try and understand hun that your husband is thinking ahead, just think of the wonderful anniversaries and holidays you both can have in your new home:)

Answer 4

you agreed, now live with it.

but, no, you want your cake and you want to eat it too....

SHAME ON YOU!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 5

It can still be special without spending a lot of money.  Put some thought into things you can do for each other.  For example: read the book 365 Nights by Charla Muller.  She promised her husband s*x every day for a year as a gift for his 40th birthday.  You could do something similar or find some other way to re-ignite the romance in your marriage.  A gift doesn't have to cost money to be meaningful.