Should i be in trouble or my brother

Question

This morning I found 50 dollars missing out of my room. Of course my mom says my brother didn’t take it even though she had money missing out of your purse. I ask my brother did you take 50 dollars from me he would say no and not look at me. Everytime I asked him this morning he wouldn’t look at me and ran away. I asked him in the car and he put hes head towards the window and said no. Then when I saw him with a smirk on his face I said I don’t know what you need that money for but its mine and give me it. He turned around and punched me. Later in the car I asked can I see whats in your pockets. He refused. I said even if there drugs or anything I wont tell on you I just want my money. He still refused. Then he tried getting something from his pocket so I said I will follow you until you empty your pockets. He would not so he ran into the bathroom. I followed him and he called my mom. My mom said just empty your pockets and he wouldn’t. So I said I will get the school involved in this. I asked someone to get help and they didn’t. Then I stood over the stall while my brother punched my face a few times. Then a secruity guard came in and my brother ran into the stall and locked the door. They said open up or ill call the police. That’s when my brother probally got rid of the money. Then I went to the office told them what happened and then they said ok just go take your final we will deal with your brother. Then I went to the bathroom and the principal asked me if im fine now and if I have a ride home since my brothers gone, I said my brother was sitting right infront of me in class still. He came in and told my brother to leave and my brother turned around and spit in my face infront of my whole summer school class. Then a cop asked me questions like what did I think my brother was going to do with the money and saying next time get an adault right away. That’s why I tried getting mom involved. She did nothing. And she said wait till we get home. If we just waited my brother would have hid the money already and you would just say o well your loss I cant do anything. When people steal my money I will go after them. I never once hit my brother. I just wanted my money back. If he would have just emptied his pockets this would never have happened. And obviously the cop doesn’t think im the crazy one because I was not in trouble. My brother was and they found ciggertes on him. When my parents got home they just yelled at me and not my brother. Am I the problem or my brother

2 hours ago - 3 days left to answer.

Answer 1

It might be a good idea of you either hid or locked up your money so that your brother could not take it again. Doesn't sound like your brother can be trusted. He's stealing money probably because he doesn't have any of his own. I hate that your parents yelled at you because of something your brother did.  Good luck.

Answer 2

You are the problem. You are making people look at what is going on. If you would just leave it alone they could ignore it.

Just because you are the problem doesn't make you wrong. In fact, you are being a problem trying to take care of a much bigger, more dangerous problem. This is not unusual. More often than not, doing the right thing will cost you. That doesn't mean you shouldn't do it. It just means it is hard.

That is why so few people do it.

Answer 3

your brother! what on earth could they have yelled at YOU for?  

Answer 4

ur broter should be in trouble not u cuz he stole the money and he had the ciggarrettes. by the way did ur brother go to juvie? srry im jus curious.