Should i be mad at my best friend?

Question

last night my best friend of 3 years told me you know when i first met you i thought you had a big nose...then she quickly added but after awhile i didn't care now you pretty...

i don't get it why she said that because now i feel selfconsious and i usually don't..because i love my self the way i am.. but i don't know why she said that and should i be mad and pissed because why would she say that

and i know that I'm pretty because i have great style I'm smart i have lots of friends i like xtreme sports i love to xperiment with hair makeup and nails and i even asked a question on here saying am i pretty and lots of people said i was hott (no conciedence)

Answer 1

Well, that was rude of her, but atleast she's being honest. Don't worry what she thinks!

**And in your question history, I didn't see any about how you look, because I'd like to decide for myself if your nose is big.

Answer 2

i really think that its no big deal what your friend thought of you 3 years ago! all that matters is what you think of yourself. and by the sounds of things, i think your fine when it comes to that. one of my best friends told me she hated me when we first met... so i totally get what you mean.

good luck!

Answer 3

My best friend at college was one of the girls who bullied me at school! I wouldn't worry too much about what she thought then, it's now that matters.

Answer 4

sorry thats quite a minor detail. you shouldnt be mad at her just for that. that's becoming a little too self -concious in my opinion. some people are going to insult you and some people are not. it shouldn't make a matter to you. besides if many people tell your pretty then you are. i find that a very minor thing to be angry about. atleast she's being honest. you cant accept that your friend will ALWAYS compliment you --thats not how it works.

sorry if i showed a minor attitude in my answer. I'm a tomboy and I just can't stand girls just caring about looks. I'm sorry its from my own opinion ^__^"

Answer 5

ok.Tell her what you feel.Don't be tempted to be mad at friends.Many people have been through this , even i have.I Know that its hard to give in.But,if you love that best friend of yours,No friendship will break.By the way,tell her what you feel so if you are angry, that madness won't stay  in your heart

Answer 6

no