Should i be pissed at my friends?

Question

i put this in the friends category..no ones really responding to it so

here it is.....

so its FRIENDS category..so if you dont want to read it move on...

my mom is in the process of moving.

shes at her job in another state, but she still has her duplex with couches, beds, and all of our belongings in there really...

so i told my friends (2 of my close girl friends) last night about how my mom wont be home until november and how i have the house to myself.

last night we all 3 planned to go to this party, but right before we left i didnt feel too well. so i asked to be taken to my dad's. my friend asked if they could both still crash at my mom's after the party cause she planned her ride to pick her up there in the morning. and since i trust them i said yeah sure just lock up the house when you leave in the morning.

well today i asked how the party went and one of my friends said fine we didnt get to your mom's until about 3 am then so n so came over. i said they came to MY mom's house? and she named off about 4 or 5 guys who..i didnt even know, but i knew they were all drinking because earlier that night they had said those guys were drinking.

so to recap. i still let them crash at my house without me there because i trust them. then they invite over people i dont know and i know they were all drinking.

all are underaged too, so if our neighbor called the cops (it is a duplex) they could have been completely screwed.

....should i be mad?

and if so..how do i go about telling them i am without making a big deal about it?

you know they are my friends..i dont want to completely jump in their face about it.

Answer 1

be pissed it was a pretty messed up thing to do who knows what could have happened. tell them your mad and if they keep on doing stupid stuff like that tell them to take a hike

Answer 2

I think you have the right to be upset, yes. They disrespected your mother's house, and you trusted them to be responsible with something that belonged to you for ONE night. I wouldn't say that's too difficult to do. It was dumb of them.

If you don't want to start a big fight, I would just bring it up to them some time (or if they ever bring it up), and just explain to them that it upset you that they lost your trust that night. Don't yell, it'll just make things worse, and it's not really worth losing friends over.

This situation is silly, and I hope your friends understand their responsibilities so you guys can move on.