Should i be sorry (friend help)?

Question

im sry but this is kinda long...

so this started a few days ago...and i was talking to a friend about how the 3 guys shes dated she has loved. now she has only gone out with 3 guys...and yet she loved em all (shes still goin out with one of em). and she is still angry at me for saying that she cant love so many ppl! we r both 14! and i really havent had a good bf but still she is 3 for 3 on loving guys! and her current bf is trying to help and he just asked me if im sry and thats my question...should i be? for crying out loud im telling the truth and yet i have to be sry for that? i think its the fact that she relized that she has loved too many ppl...but what do u think?

plz help me out!

thanx!!!

Answer 1

No you dont need to be sorry.  I think you sound mature for your age.

Its not very likely that your friend has been "in love" with the 3 people she "dated."  I think the problem is that maybe you and your friend have slightly different definitions of what "love" actually is.  I bet she means that  she genuinely cared for each of her 3 BF's and you view "love" as something much more deep...something not to be taken lightly....

maybe you both should just agree to disagree......whenever someone tries to tell another person how they feel, felt or should feel it never turns out great.  

Answer 2

Sometimes the truth is too harsh, and we need to keep the truth. Your friend must be really confused as to whom she loves, so by telling her that she's doing the wrong thing, u were morally right, but u made her feel guilty and so she got angry. If she's a good friend, u should say sorry and settle this. Its her life after all, and many girls go out with a lot of boys, I'm sure she will be able to settle this, u ignore this, there's not much u can do if she doesnt listen to u, so why ruin your friendship?  

Answer 3

I'm with you...  but shes fourteen? adn been in love??  haha I'm not even allowed to LIKE like guys till I'm fricken 16   lucky me =)

Answer 4

well, you sure as h**l shouldnt be in a fight because you stated your opinion. no ur friend cant have loved them. people just throw that word around all the time now.

i have a crush on this guy. i have since i met him, and we are just friends. sometimes i feel like i am completely head over heels in love with him, but i know that it is just strong feelings at the time cuz maybe that day i saw him kissing his girlfriend or something.

Answer 5

lol omg... ur so cute! but i kinda agree with you. u guys are young and i guess ur picky and understand that ur probably not gonna find the right guy the first time or second time u date someone. its ok if u dont fall in love with someone the day he asks u to be his gf, u end up falling inlove as time goes and u love them more everyday... so ur right, ur too young to be in love 3 times... she probably doesnt know the difference between really liking a person and having butterflies when she sees them to... really really loving someone unconditionally. its hard to love someone and forget then fall in love again and then forget them and fall in love yet again... especially at 14... shes just confused. just tell her ur sorry and u didnt mean to hurt her feelings. u just dont to see her get hurt so much... (cus it takes a while to get over someone u love) and tell her bf to stay out of it! its not ur fault u dont settle for mr.right now instead of mr.right...

Answer 6

yeah unfortunately..

cause you didn't say the truth, you are just 14 and  u have alot of time to love just 1, now u should enjoy the world...

Answer 7

you are 14. FOURTEEN. you kids will probably never know what love is until you are 25. do you realize you arent even 1/6 done with your life?? if life was a yard stick you would be on the one inch mark.

try lust. or obsession. or hormones.