Should i be sorry? or should he?

Question

I went to the mall with my friends today. 1 girl 2 guys. one of the guys (we'll call him M) well M thinks we arent friends anymore because we dont hang out just me and him alot, well u can be friends with someone withought hangin out wif them like 24/7 because thats what he wants. if M doesnt get what he wants then he gets rlly mean to me and starts sayin mean stuff to me and acts like a jerk, well he was a little today so i was yelling at him and ignoring him. i want to be friends with him but he doesnt respect me, am i the one who should say sorry to him about today? or should he? should i still be friends with him if he wont respect me? should i tell him to be more mature? idk what i should do help!

Answer 1

Tell him your sorry for yelling & ignoring him & that you still want to be friends with him, -but also tell him that in the nicest possible way that he needs to get real a little & he needs to respect you in order for that to happen. k good luck x:)

Answer 2

yeah tell him you won't talk to him anymore if he keeps an acting like an ***

Answer 3

don't be friends if he doesn't respect you like a friend should. but if you really want to be friends then talk to him about it. don't apologize until he does but make him realize what is making you guys fight.

Answer 4

You know exactly what you should do - don't be sorry, you didn't do anything wrong but stick up for yourself!!!

Don't let other people try to make you feel sorry for them or make you feel like you're the mean one when something like this happens.

I won't let anyone be mean to me, and certainly not anyone who wants to be my 'friend'!!!!

He's a very immature BOY and you should tell that to his face.

Answer 5

I think that he should be the one to be sorry.  Getting to know each other and respect each other are the first step of developing friendship.  So tell him to grow up.

Answer 6

its not your fault

and you dont have to do what he wants you to

tell him you like him and that you want to be friends

but say if hes going to treat you like that,

why should you want to hang out with him?

try and make him understand how hes acting.

Answer 7

just say sorry for yelling...that's to be nice...but i think he may like you...and that's his weird way of saying it!