Should i be with my bf or no???

Question

I have been in a committed relationship with a guy since the last 2 and a half years.In these years he has cheated on me once for another girl (it was a casual flirt) and then he lied to me twice for a friend (girl ) of his. To talk to her and meet her. He has never even given me proper time coz of his work and stuff, but i have always been there to support,love and care for him. Now when i have stared talking to one of my old friend(guy) and have casually met him once or twice. My bf has started abusing me and not talking to me properly and insulting me..Though initially i didn't tell him about this friend of mine coz i was scared of his reactions.. What should i do ??be with him of leave him??

Answer 1

Hi,

Move on

cheers

Answer 2

leave him. dont even question it. there are many guys out there, many of whom will treat you the way any person deserves to be treated, which your current bf is not doing. love can be blind, but you need to do yoursef a huge favor and get out of an uneven relationship like this so you wont be blinded by your own emotions any longer.

Answer 3

leave him. he probably doenst love you anyway coz if he does he would have not cheated on you.

Answer 4

Are you ******* stupid? No i really hope you are cause why else would you stay with that ***! Hes cheated on you flirted with other girls and abused you! Thats like a flashing light in your face saying "LEAVE HIM!!" wake up! Hes never given you proper time cause of his work,yea think again hes probably banging chicks behind your back cause he knows he can! cause you stand by and let him do w/e the h**l he wants...i hate women like you. You say you support care for him and blah blah blah well what good has he done for you in return..NOTHING. He doesnt deserve you, get out of this **** "relationship" fast or it will become a dreaded life for you

Answer 5

Verbal or physical... You dont need him.

Answer 6

i swear some questions i think be sarcastic rhetorical ones, if he abuse you and you're not his wife (not condoning marriage abuse but thats a different?) leave him. Come on now.

Answer 7

i would dump him at the first sign of abuse

like a push or a slap

just get out

and FAST

Answer 8

communicate

Answer 9

LEAVE HIM  

Answer 10

Sounds like there are some trust issues on both sides. If you both feel like you have to go behind the other's back to see friends of the opposite s*x, there are some problems there.

Definitely communicate your feelings to him, and ask him to be open and honest with you. Once you are both honest with eachother and yourselves, you will know what the next step should be.

Good luck.

Answer 11

Dump him.