Should i be worried about this? (co-ed sleepover)?

Question

i found out that my boyfriend had a sleepover with his best friend...who happens to be a girl! they have been friends since they were born and they've had sleepovers way before we even started dating but i still dont know if i trust him enough. btw we are all 15.

Answer 1

yeah.

if only you knew what bestfriends do.

especially in the summer.

party and have fun.

me and myfriends do what ever.

who's going to remember it in 10 years.

even me n my female friends have a little dirty fun!

+& i'm 13.

don't trust him.

explainhow this makes you feel.

he should understand.

if not,then he's not worth it.

explain to him he's a litle too old to be having sleep over's.

especially wiff' girls.

where's this chicks mom?

Answer 2

they've had sleepovers way before we even started dating but i still dont know if i trust him enough

Bee, do you see what you wrote?  They have been friends for so many years, an have done this many times before.  then you say you dont know if you trust him enough?  It's over girl. because you will always be suspicious when what you wrote your self shows it to innnocent.  Even it it isn't , you have already decided they probably are doing morethan sleeping.

Answer 3

Very unusual!

It would be a cause for concern.

Answer 4

If you trust him, don't worry.

Answer 5

You need to talk to him. It's the only way to be sure.

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Answer 6

Why in the world would a boy and a girl have a sleep over?

Answer 7

It would be nice to trust him, but if it was me, I wouldn't. Too many raging hormones in teens!

Answer 8

Personally i trust in my boyfriend enough to know that he wouldn't do anything, if there's no trust there's no relationship. And if they've had sleepovers before i'd say that it would be fine, it's not like its a new thing to them, they probably don't think much of it anyways. It's just like hanging out with one of his guy friends for him i'm sure. But if you're uncomfortable with this situation try talking to him about it. Tell him how you feel and if he really cares about you he'll try to fix things, that may not mean he'll give up their sleepovers, you can't expect him to just drop his friends for you, which i'm sure you already know. Just try to understand where he's coming from and don't jumb to conclusions. Hope i helped...at least a little bit, i'm only a year older than you, but trust me, i have a lot of experience with guys, almost all my friends have been guys since like first grade. So i know how they work. :)

Answer 9

well tehy prob. had a little somthg smthg going on i think u should dump him on teh spot that is just unfair to u sweet heart.. .!!

Answer 10

Im sorry but if i had a boy friend like you than I would die my best friend is a guy and we do stuff all the time i have  been friends with him for 3 years and i havent done anything with him once so dot worry i bet hes just spending time with his friend

but since you dont trust him than talk to him he can tell you an dmake you more comfortable with the sitiation

Answer 11

You need to reel him in tighter sista! Give him an inch o' freedom and he takes a mile! Slap that ***** he slept with and kick his jewels!

Answer 12

omg they are probably like brother and sister. if i were you, i would probably like be stunned for a while, but really therre is NOTHING to worry aboiut. you dont have to make a big deal out of it theyve done it before

Answer 13

depends.

are they more like brotherly sisterly like best friends?

i mean, its not like its that much different than sleeping over with a guy anyway.

guys can have s*x too.

but since they've been having sleep overs for a while i wouldn't question it.

Answer 14

My ex bf, (we were in our early twenties at the time) had been friends with a girl since they were in first grade. When she moved out of state she would often stay at his house overnight on her way to go visit her parents who lived in a nother town. And nothing went on. I could tell by watching them that they were completely platonic. So maybe that is the case here, these days, it seems like the norm for a lot of people to have best friends of the opposite s*x. If he wanted her, I doubt he would be with you. But maybe hint around about hanging out here some that night, and see how he reacts.