Should i beat the **** out of him?

Question

thank you all, despite what you all said he saw me at a store at the other day, and proceded to shove me and yell" stupid mother ******!" so i broke his nose along with an arm and one rib. no charges are being filed as it was self defense.

Answer 1

NO!!

As much as it would make you temporarily feel better, it is a bad idea.

If you are Catholic or Eastern Orthodox (probably not since you are talking about "ex-es"), I would suggest that you talk to your priest about it under the sanctions of confessional secrecy. It might even be better to talk to a priest who does not know you or anybody else in the family.

Otherwise, talk to your mother about it. She will (may)  know if your stepfather is approachable on the matter.

If anybody in the family takes any actions, it should be him!

There can be all sorts of family repercussions no matter what steps you take. That is why I suggest that the ONLY person (besides your mother) that you should talk to is a person who is OBLIGATED to keep it to himself (not report it to the authorities.)

Answer 2

no matter how awesomely good it would feel no. in the long run its only going to hurt you as you will have a record. try to let the law take care of it.

Answer 3

i think that would be a great way to land yourself in jail!!!

in some states they can try you as an adult for certain "aggrevated" crimes.

for people like that...its only a matter of time before they do it again which is bad...but its also that much more chance they will get caught and go to prison. and people in prison dont like child molestors!!!

dont waste yourself on his account man. he's not worth it.

Answer 4

Very mature. Look at me Im a big man I know Karate, and I can use it on 13 year olds.

Hes 13 he needs real discipline and probably counseling.

Id beat the c**p out of you if I ever met you you snot nosed punk.

Answer 5

What the f***? Something is definitely wrong with that 13 year old... I feel you dude, if I were you I'd want to beat the c**p out of him too, but honestly I don't think it would do any good because it sounds like this kid needs some serious help. You can talk to your mom or someone about it. This 13 year old is beyond a good old fashioned beat down, he needs some serious professional help.

Keep an eye out for your 4 year old step sister, too. She's part of your family now, and you need to watch over her. But for now try and let other people handle it.

And don't let that kid near your sister again.

Answer 6

i say go for it.

Answer 7

Just call the police and tell them your story

Answer 8

no but teach him a lesson, dont lower to his level

Answer 9

Put the raper in the hospital? I think You should talk this over with Your mom, If You know, I'm sure she knows. So talk with her about it.

That's a dangerous situation.

Answer 10

Something else is wrong here.  Unless he's seriously twisted, 13 year old boys just don't go around raping their 4 year old stepsisters.

What you should do is call the police and have the crime properly investigated.  Beating him up doesn't do anything to help the victim or uncover the real story.  All it does is prove that you are a violent vigilante.

Answer 11

if the stepbrother is 13 then i wonder where all his pent up sexual aggression came from?

i wonder if it's happened to him before?

this is not typical behaviour for a 13 year old boy to do to his sister

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please know i am not defending what he MAY have done. as i don't know the story.

i certainly hope the police are involved and there are counsellors working with the little girl, as she will need support right away

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i am so sorry that this is happening to you and your family

i can't image how you are feeling

best of luck to you all

Answer 12

No you should not.

I wouldn't want you to be in jail.

Edit:

It's 'rapist', not 'raper'.

For a moment I was thinking you're talking about a rapist rapper.

Anyway, I hope you get the idea, don't rush out and do something you might regret for the rest of your life.

Answer 13

Not unless you're prepared to have a criminal record.  Believe me, anybody here who has a heart sympathizes with you and your family.

As nice as it would be to inflict pain and suffering on this dirtbag, this is not the way to go.  It certainly won't undo what he did.

Talk to your priest, talk to your counsellor, talk to your family doctor, your teacher, talk to a cop, talk to your  mother, but talk to somebody.  This is too much for you to carry by yourself.

Answer 14

Yes and Watch out for the cops and feds! "All of the points are classified into 2 catagories :

Numerical Alphabetical I -brain/skull A-immobility from pain II -sense organs B-immobility from structural or III-life support, cardiorespiratory, organic damage major organs & tracts C-Unconsciousness from nerve or organic IV -muscular functions & nerves damage V -mechanical functions, skeletal, D-death from physiological damage cartilages & joints The ventral transverse plane consists of the face, the front, top, & sides of the head, the neck, & the upper torso, including the collarbone. There are 15 pressure points in this area as follows: 1. coronal suture I-C 2. trigeminal nerve & frontal bone I-D 3. temple & fossa temporalis I-D 4. eyes II-B 5. ears II-B 6. mastoid II-A 7. septal cartilage II-A or II-D 8. anterior nasal spine I-A 9. temporomandibular joint V-A 10. tip of mandible I-C 11. sternocleidomastoid region III-D 12. anterior neck region III-D 13. brachial plexus & trapezius muscle IV-C 14. suprasternal notch III-D 15. clavicle V-B

1: This region lays on top of the head, more towards the forehead. It is also known as the soft spot on babies. It is the space between the skull bones that is covered with a membrane that close up usually by 18 months, but the coronal structure is still weaker than the rest of the skull. Directly beneath this is the sensory portion of the brain & under that the optic cavity. A downward strike of about 45 degrees depending on the force could cause concussion, temporary blindness, unconsciousness, brain hemorrhage, even death (very powerful blow).

2: This region is located just below the centermost point of the forehead The nerve is on the outside of the skull thus when the bone is struck it will trap the nerve. This could result in jarring the cerebral hemispheres, concussion, unconsciousness, impaired vision, & paralysis. If and only if maximum impact is applied, death could result from brain hemorrhage.

3: I'm sure we all know where the temple is but for those of you that don't know it is located on a horizontal plane across from the top of the ear. It is the recessed part on each side of the head. It is actually the bone tip of the sphenoid. The trigeminal nerve runs through the the temple. This nerve controls several facial functions. Also passing through is the middle meningeal artery which is the largest branch suppling dura matter. A direct hit could break the tip off the sphenoid causing it to enter the brain. The meningeal could burst. Contact to the trigeminal could result in loss of control of facial functions. Compression of the brain, hemorrhage, concussion, shock, & death are likely results of striking the temple with a horizontal blow directed towards the opposite temple.

4: The eyes are located...uh I think you know. The eyes are very sensitive even to the slightest touch. They are held in by fascia bulbi (a soft membrane) and eye muscles. This makes them easy to pop out. They are also very soft, and if a blow reached the vitreous body (center of eye) the eyeball would collapse. Other than causing temporary or permanent loss of sight a deep thrust could puncture the brain causing death.

5: These are located on each side of the head. Air is easily trapped in the external acoustic meatus (the tunnel from the outer ear to the inner ear) and forced into the eardrum causing it to bust. This in turn ruptures the hammer or malleus within the middle ear. Damages would cause severe pain, loss of hearing, bleeding from the mouth and ear, and bleeding into the throat via the internal auditory tube. Also, the inner ear is the center of equilibrium (balance) for the cerebellum. a forceful strike could leave the victim sprawled on the ground with no balance! The blow should be delivered horizontally driving into the ear.

6: The mastoid is located directly behind the earlobe. It is the recessed area where the skull meets the neck. It is filled with air pockets which are used to communicate with the middle ear. A thrust should not be used; rather apply pressure with a nuckle or thumbnail in an upward direction. Prolonged pressure could cause damage to the auditory system.

7: Known more commonly as the nose the septal cartilage is the had substance that makes up the nose. Two strikes are used here for different measures II-A : a horizontal strike causing breakage of the septal cartilage and nasal bone which ruptures the angular vein producing a lot of blood along with great pain, however, not enough to stop some attackers II-D : an upward 45 degree strike forcing the septal cartilage through the internal nasal cavity and crista galli (a small bone formation between the nasal cavity & the brain) into the brain. Death would be instantaneous because of compression of the brain.

8: This is located beneath the nose and above the lips. It is the area between the 2 lines running from the nose to upper lip. Many of the facial nerves run through this area. A direct hit would cause the sensory fibers to relay the shock to the pons, causing dizziness. A hit would also cause damage to the maxilla bone which holds the gums & teeth. This could cause extensive bleeding posibly scaring the victim about the blood loss. A straight blow in needed to achieve this aiming towards the back of the head.

9: This is the joint that holds the jaw bone in place. It connects with the skull in front of the ear. The joint is really made up of 2 separate joints, thus dislocation can be unilateral or bilateral. With a 45 degree downward strike (preferably with the mouth open) will dislocate the mandible (jaw bone). An easier way to break the bone is to strike the joint itself or anywhere on the jaw bone really while the head is turned to one side or the other. This reduces the absorbtion of the blow by the neck. This method requires the least amount of force.

10: The madible is the jaw bone and of course the tip is located on the very end of the chin. Boxers use this point for a quick K.O. Hitting this area sends a shock snesor to the cerebellum causing unconsciousness. Hit this point with an upward blow.

11: This is the area at the frontal sides of the neck. The sternocleidomastoid muscles run from behind the ear down to the clavicle bones. Beneath these muscles lie the jugular vein and cartoid artery which supply blood to the heart & brain. This are is very sensitive. Try poking yourself there. A medium strike results in dizziness. A more forceful blow could blister, swell, collapse, or burst 1 or both of the blood lines. This could easily cause death because of lack of oxygen to the heart or brain. A strike should be done on an upsloping plane at 45 degrees on either side of the chin in the neck area.

12: Referred to as the windpipe or throat; is located in the center portion of the neck. This is a tubular passage running from the mouth to the stomach & lungs. When a straight on blow is delivered the thyroid cartilage (Adam's apple(the lump in your throat)) and the hyaline cartilage (hold the windpipe in a cylinder shape) are pushed through the larynx and/or trachea resulting in blood drowning or partial or complete obstruction of the vital air passages. The cartilages act as cutting devices.

13: The muscle is the one that runs from the base of the neck to the shoulder. It raises up on most people. The brachial plexus is a nerve center which supplies info about the shoulder & arm down to the wrist. It runs through the trapezius. Striking the trapezius (from either front or back) with a downward 45 degree motion could paralyze the arm & shoulder temporarily. With a maximun blow unconsciousness & paralysis could be attained.

14: This lies between the collarbones; it connects them. A blow here could dislodge the collarbones from the sternum, collapsing the shoulders. But there are better targets behind the sternum. Such as the aorta, the superior vena cava (major blood lines to the brain), and the trachea all these pass directly behind the sternum. A forceful blow would follow these reactions : dislodge both clavicles from the sternum, the sternum would split, the 2 clavicles & sternum would be forced against or puncture the aorta and vena cava, the cartilages & bones would then be forced against or puncture the trachea. The strike should be delivered at a downward 45 degree angle.

The suprasternal notch is a MAJOR death target.

15: This is the bone on each side of the body that runs from the shoulder to the center of the chest. It supports the shoulder so breaking a clavicle (collarbone) would result in the collapse of the shoulder. It is possible for the broken bone to puncture a lung or possibly the heart or one of the things mentioned in #14. A simple break would immobilize the victim due to structural damage & pain. An inward & down motion should be used when attacking also at 45 degrees.

That concludes Part I. I hope you have learned from this lesson in human anatomy. Please use this information wisely for I take no responsibilities in the misuse of these facts. This was intended for informational purposes only. That means I don't really expect you to go out and beat the h**l out of someone (unless they need it!)."

Answer 15

No I'm sure the **** will just pass naturally so you don't need to beat it out. If it doesn't within a few days he should try eating some fiber. In a few days if there's still nothing then go to a doctor... LOL! But no, you shouldn't. You'd probably lose anyway, after all.... he is a felon.

Answer 16

Looking for justice...in this world? Good luck.

Here's what happens if you beat him up.

1. You'd feel good...for about an hour.

2. You'd go to jail...and jail might possibly would mess up the rest of your life.

3. The raper will still rape again.

The best thing for you to do is to gain REAL power. Think about how the raper got off...lawyers, judges, money. Kick butt academically, get an education/career in a field that has real power. Then you can change things.

"We men are wretched things.", Achilles.

Answer 17

yes you should