Should i believe him or not?

Question

I have been with my boyfriend on and off for 4 years.He has always defended and went out of his way for his male friend. Nov. 07, after we have been apart for six months, sought me out and I let him in again! He said he wanted us to get married. Well since Nov. I have had to ask for my engagement ring and he wasn't happy about that. Now it is Aug 08. he still lives in my house with me and three kids. He has made no attempt to sit down with me and go over household expenses. Come to find out he has his male friend on his car ins., cell phone contract, as well as providing him AAA. He claims that since Nov. 07 he hasn't had time to take his friend off any of these. Yet the AAA was renewed last month. My boyfriend's friend is allowed to use my boyfriend's car to do wrong things that could cause harm to me and my kids. Since Nov.07 my "fiance" has been providing his "friend" with car ins., roadside asst., and a cell phone. He doesn't provide this for me. Why? He said his actions do not show that his friend has come first. Should I believe this? Or realize that he is g*y or really does not want commitment and he is just living with me to save money. Please help me to be strong. In my heart I love him and want to trust him, but what has just taken place I feel he should just move back with his friend. Thank you for your time. KM

Answer 1

There are too many things that your "boyfriend/fiancee" is doing that don't add up.  Based on what you said, his actions and what he's telling you conflict in MORE than one instance.  You're suspicious, and you have every right to be.

Honestly, I'd suggest he move out.  I'd tell you to ditch him, too, but YOU know what's best.  Remember that he's NOT the only man who will ever love you... and based on his deception, he doesn't seem to treat you like someone he loves and respects.

Answer 2

  get out now !!!  he is a dong smoker, rump wrangler, pickle smoocher

I can promise you that he has tossed a salad or two in his day..maybe last night. what does his breath smell like ?

Answer 3

He is taking advantage of you.

When he said he was ready to get married he should have shown that to you through his actions and not his words. They speak louder.

Get rid of him and find someone else this guy is a loser for sure.

Sounds like he loves his best friend more than you.

Best Wishes.

Answer 4

Sounds like he is already in a relationship with the friend and I would tell him to Man-up and drop the friend or find some new sleeping arrangements.

Yes he sounds like he is g*y and not out of the closet.

Lisa

Answer 5

He's using you. And he is sooooooooooo g*y.

Answer 6

Kick him out, he is free loading off of you and your feelings. There are more fish out there who are not on the down lo.