Should i call my boyfriend and ask him if he wants to hang out or should i wait till he calls me?

Question

we have been goin out for 1 month and i only saw him 2 and the seconde time he just wanted to leave but i think it was because our friends where there and i'm he's first girl friend

Answer 1

I suggest that you wait. Don't run after him because men HATE that. Unless his is the most understanding, handsome, charming, witty.............basically the most perfect man on earth. Then you should call him. Get what I mean?

Answer 2

call him, and tell him to meet you at your local park, and just walk around the track at your park or something, and just talk. thats what i did with my first bf, and curent bf, (my first)

Answer 3

If he's officially your boyfriend, then he's also your friend, and it's okay to call him up to talk or hang out, just as you would with any friend.  

You're both new at this, so of course it's going to be awkward sometimes.  Just roll with it.

Answer 4

What is this the 1950's? Call him.

Answer 5

you should wait for him to call you and when you finnally hang out, ignore like he ignored you and made you wait for so long, so he'll know better next time

Answer 6

call him, if you wait you might not hear from him.he`s not much of a boyfriend if you have only seen him 2 times in one month.ask him what`s really going on!!

Answer 7

You've only seen him twice and you're already calling him your boyfriend?

Just be friends and hang out!  Don't have the pressure of a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship until you are comfortable enough with each other that you won't even think about talking about this.

Answer 8

JUST CALL HIM AND ASK HIM OUT TO WHATEVER AND it should work. have fun...

Answer 9

be the nice one call him

Answer 10

only twice? you should be callin him alot more

Answer 11

Just say im bored, I wish i could find something to do, or go out somewhere.

If he needs to know days in advanced before an outing then just pick a new release movie (Mummy 3 on Fri). And casually say d**n i really want to see that movie wouldn't you?  Then he could say yea, so you guys could plan a date.  If he says no think of another movie.  

If still no...why r u "going out" with him?

Answer 12

Why are you even dating if you have only seen him twice and you are afraid to talk to him???

Answer 13

Yes, call him. Life is too short to wait around.

Answer 14

Call and take him for a walk or something.

Answer 15

First of all, how old are you. Second, you just started your relationship, so what I think best.. You should wait til he calls you cause sometime guys want there space and they dont want you to crowd that until they are ready or he will back away from you and you never see him. Good luck.

Answer 16

should I call?

should he call?

who should call?

if you want to talk to him then call him.

quit playing games and you will do much better in life.

Answer 17

If you want to talk to him, call him. Don't expect him to read your mind, it'll just cause you problems and it isn't fair to him.

Also, yes, it's not the 1950's.

Answer 18

Call him.  If he gets weird or thinks you are crowding him, find a new boyfriend cuz he is too immature.

Answer 19

u should call him be the leader

Answer 20

wait for him,let him chase you!

Answer 21

If you want to hang out, then call him otherwise whenever he will feel needing you, then he will call you. Wait n watch.

Answer 22

get off the computer RIGHT NOW, go to your phone, call him up and ask to hang.

trust me.

Answer 23

why wait for something you want to do, you will only be frustrated and then upset that he didn't.  Conflict is easy to avoid and also easy to create.

Answer 24

what do U wanna do?

Answer 25

Call and tell him to come over and knock the bottom out of that!

Answer 26

I tihnk shoudl wait tell he calls you because you dont wait to seam to pushy. Especially if your his first Girl friend. You could text him & find out why he left but i wouldnt ring him otherwise he might dump you for being to clingy. x

Answer 27

wait

Answer 28

It takes a while to build a relationship. I'm not sure how old you are or if you are in school so giving you advice is difficult unless I know your age. But if you are going steady you know it . If you want this boy to pay more attention to you try a little harder to find out what his interests are. You have only gone out twice so be patient and get to know him better. E-mail him or TeX him a hello and ask what is he doing ask him questions about his life ,what he likes and dislikes start as a friend and not too much pressure. Tread slowly if he is interested he will respond positively and TeX you back and that will give you more of and idea of what is up. Again its very hard to give advice unless we know how old you and your friend are.

Be a friend first and see where that goes.Good luck.

Answer 29

well if the second time he wanted to leave then maybe give him some time.  wait a few days before anything.  if he doesnt even get back to you when ur waiting, you might need to talk to him, ask him how he feels, maybe he'd rather be friends.  i dont think thats the case tho it sounds like hes probably just nervous, so wait a few days then call him casually.  leave him a normal message asking him how he is or other conversational stuff, dont ask him out right away.  good luck!

Answer 30

justa wait for him to call ya you dont want to be seen as needy or something

Answer 31

Just wait for him to call you.  You don't want to seem too pushy.