I recently invited a friend over to my new house and let her and her kids sleep in my bedroom while i slept in the basement. Now a few weeks later i notice that i am missing a few pairs of slacks that i distinctly remember having in my closet. Hindsight is 20/20 and i do remember hearing what might have been her rummaging through some of my things that night.
Is it worth ruining a friendship by confronting her, and if so how should i do it? Or should i just count it as a loss and be leary of her whenever she comes over again? I have scrubbed my house from top to bottom and i cannot find the slacks. For a moment, i thought i was going crazy until i remembered that evening?
There could be no other explanation, no one else has been in my new home lately. Is there a tactful way i could bring up the issue, short of stalking her and jumping out of the bushes to ambush her while she is wearing my pants? I know this is more than paranoia i just don't know how to handle the situation.
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