Should i date a 15 almost 16 year old when im almost 20?

Question

I am 19 and going to be 20 in sept and she is 15 going to be 16 in sept. so my question is would its just be absolutely wrong to date her. i really like her and she is absolutely in love with me. like she even forced me to go out with her lol. im am pretty much considered a loser i guess lol, and she is my first girlfriend, but she the one who is in love with me, but something seems wrong about dating her. ive only been dating her for about a week. idk what to do. i have fun hanging out with her and everything. i havent kissed her yet. im looking for some answers before it gets any further

Answer 1

That's illegal, bud..

Answer 2

UR A NASTY ***! jeez, let her live her life....shes 15 she needs to grow, and enjoy guys her own age...u were able to experience it...dont take that innocence from her...

GROW UP! GET A LIFE! AND GO FOR SOMEONE UR OWN AGE AND EXPERIENCE!!! ur a stupid nasty @ss cougar stay away from her...

Answer 3

I can't give you a completely straight answer.. this can be kind of risky. I wouldn't be worried about it too much yet because you haven't started a physical relationship, but when it gets to that point, you'll need to just do what your heart tells you to do. Don't rush her into anything, and don't let her rush you into anything. I think that overall, age shouldn't matter... but it's kind of different if you look at it from a legal view. JUST DONT RUSH OR BE RUSHED. That will cause problems.

I wouldn't say that you should date her and I wouldn't say that you shouldn't. Just do what you think is best.

I hope everything works out for you.  

Answer 4

well unless u wanna spend a few years in prison u need to leave her alone. and distance yourself from her so u and her are not tempted to do anything. And put her down gently because she is young dude.

Answer 5

this is almost like my question people say it's illegal.

Answer 6

I wouldn't! One the mature level aren't the same and it's against the law!

Answer 7

i dated a guy in my twenties when i was 16 but the thing about it is that you have to make sure her parents are ok with it because if not and you hurt her and they want to retaliate, you can get into a lot of trouble, just make sure you get in good with her parents and make sure you really do care about her and know that she isn't crazy and won't try to put you in jail for rape..good luck

Answer 8

No dont date her. She is young not developed enough mentally to handle an adult relationship. If things are meant to be and you really think she may be the one wait til shes 18 if it is meant to happen it will then.

BUT if you absolutly feel you have to date her talk to her dad he will give you the advice you need. If he is against it than its wrong. If he is for it then you have your answer.  

Answer 9

its illegal.  if an authority figure finds out you may be listed as a s*x offender for the rest of your life...so do not take the risk

Answer 10

Why is it fun to date a little girl? That's why it feels wrong, she's still a kid.

Answer 11

well, everyone here its gonna tell you to get away from her oviously. just follow your heart. i think age aint nothing but a number. in the end age aint gonna be such a difference. im 15 goin out with a 20 yr old. almost 21. and we love each other to deff! hes my everything and without him i feel so incomplete. we been together for a pretty long time but we never crossed the line. ever! and thats how its gonna stay. =] wow i know alot of people gonna give me the thumbs down but good luck.  

Answer 12

You could end up in jail. Leave her alone

Answer 13

its illegal until she is 18

and it would look a little wierd to other people