Should i date her or not??

Question

There is a girl from my class..

really nice and i always fun to talk with.

but she smokes and i hate smoking people... shese not going to quit smoking..

she also likes me and i like her too but its... its hard for me to have a relation with ppl who smoke becouse i just quited!

can i date her when she's still smoking?

i dont wannah make her upset in any way!

Greetzz

Answer 1

OK I say since you just stopped smoking I wouldny get with her just because your protecting yourself.

Answer 2

that is an individual choice you have to make; and you must keep your health in mind FIRST before hers. it is difficult for someone who has quit smoking to be around smokers. i understand. do what is best for you.

you know the old saying, "if you hang around a barber shop long enough, you'll probably end up getting a haircut!". if you hang around a smoker, you might smoke. (i'm not saying you will,but you might.).

i used to drink and don't anymore. for me, personally speaking, i do not date anyone who drinks. it's my PERSONAL PREFERENCE and i know i can find someone else who doesn't drink. i must do what is best for me. good luck. =)

Answer 3

well you could, if you like her you like her.

but like since shes smoking and you just

quit. its going to be harder to stick to it since

its going to be like there in front of you alot.

Answer 4

I have a boyfriend he smoked and did some other things that I did not approve of. I am very much against this stuff. I can't stand people that smoke. I think its good that you stopped smoking for yourself, but if you decide that you don't want to be with someone who smokes, especially if it could prevent you from not smoking, then just leave her alone. You are young and you will date many girls.  

Answer 5

lol ur  like 15 or 14 wow um ur still young listen

no gf or bf = NO PROBLEMS

Answer 6

You have to do what is best for you, you dont like it, tell her the reason why you dont want to date her

Answer 7

well my advice  is if you truly like her like TRULY then you should go out with her. Just ask her not to smoke when your with her, if it bothers you that much. i understand how you feel, when you with something that you want but you know its wrong its hard. i have been threw the same thing but not with smoking. i totally  understand you and i think you should go out with her and just ask her nicely not to smoke when you with her and tell her the situation you in, that your trying to quit.

-hope this helps.

Answer 8

If you don't like smoking, don't go out with her.

If you like her, you'll have to accept her smoking. You can't go out with her, then all of a sudden tell her she needs to quit. It don't work that way. Take her as is, or don't take her at all.  

Answer 9

i think yes but a little later on after you know you wont take up smoking again i smoke and i hate it want to quite to but its really hard congrats on quieting to DON'T take it up again its heaps hard to quite