Should i do something?

Question

i dated a girl

we r still friends but she is a little off

first i mean she is so hot for a 13 year old

she dated 15 year olds usually five guys a week

and of course she began smoking and drinking h

her parents dont care

should i do something she is not gonna be hot forever

Answer 1

If you care about someone and want to help them avoid mistakes in their life, you should certainly try. However, it's unlikely that you criticizing the choices you see her making will make her change. If anything it would probably make them worse. Your best best is to help her find other outlets for her behavior such as encouraging her involvement in after school activities or sports or something. You could also try to involve her in group activities with people who take better care of themselves and don't smoke and drink. You will never be able to control the actions of others, but it is certainly never wrong to help offer healthier options. If she declines and continues her behavior, at least you have tried.

Answer 2

Yeah, go in your room and fiddle with yourself while you think about her.

Answer 3

This girl is in serious trouble, and her parents are being criminally neglectful of her welfare.

You should report the girl's activity to a school counselor - maybe *someone* will help her before she ruins her life.

Don't date her, and don't encourage her reckless habits.  If you're really her friend, or have any sense of decency, try to help her instead of taking advantage of her foolishness.

Answer 4

Are you saying that this girl has a problem with s*x, drinking, and drugs and you want to help her?  That would be very sweet of you, but she probably will not want to talk to you anymore after you do this.  Considering her parents don't care, you would have to talk to a guidance counselor or someone like that.  If she's in big trouble, though, you should do it anyway.  If she's just starting to experiment like a normal teenager, just sit down with her for a chat and let her know that you'll be there for her if she needs you.