Should i do this? is it appropriate?

Question

a child drowned at a pool. is it appropriate to bring a teddy bear and set it by the door of the building?

Answer 1

What kind of building is it? Is it public or private? Would it be in anyone's way?

Answer 2

Leaving a marker is something that makes people feel better in the short term. But soon someone has to come and clean up the dedications and toys which are generally thrown away. Instead maybe you should consider making a donation to the family or to a charity that helps children in some way. That way you are doing something that actually helps people and you know that your gift is going to be used and appreciated and not simply tossed away in a day or two.

Answer 3

ABSOLUTELY! it is important to recognize that this tragic event happened and the monumental loss that has happened. I think it's a great idea.

Answer 4

It's ok to do.

Answer 5

i agree with msmanner

Answer 6

Yes, it's most appropriate.

Answer 7

Yes that shows compasion, which is so lacking these days!

Answer 8

Put a flower on it too, like a white lilly or something.