How would you feel if your gf/bf talked to you about this?
me and my gf don't really have a strong communication thing going on. it feels like a wall between us. i have the habit of keeping everything bottled up inside. i have never told anybody my inner feelings, fear, desires, etc. ive decided to open up to my gf. some things concern her, some things don't. i asked her to go walking with me and that there was soemthing important i wanted to talk about. she agreed and i most likely have her curiosity going. here is a list of some of the things i want to talk about. how would you feel if you bf, who never really had any deep convos with you, talked about these things listed?
- i feel like i havent found my identity in this life yet. i really dont know who i am
- i keep everything bottled up inside of me and have never told anyone about anything that bothers me and she is the first one
- when her and her friend are together they have random convos. its hard for me to join in on those so i end up just sitting quietly. sometimes i do try real hard and end up making a fool of myself
- i can sense a closeness with her and her friend that we lack between us and i hope that we can eventually get to that point.
- i wanted to see where we are in the relatioinship. we've been together 5 months but 4 were apart due to summer from college
- what she would consider as clingy or smothering b/c i fear that i might end up like that. so if she tells me , i can avoid becoming that
- i wanted to talk about my fear of s******g something up between us
i also want to get to know her better, so at the end im gonna shift the focus to learning more about her. i am really nervous and feel kinda weird doing this. im hoping this will get her to open up to me as well. im not gonna say everythinglisted here, just some of it. im gonna see how it goes and then decide what to say from the list. i have never done this before and dont know how to start the convo. and suggestions?
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