Should i even consider this?

Question

I just got my first tattoo which is a butterfly on my left breast. It's in the perfect spot so I can cover it if need be and let is show if I want. Well this was the test tattoo to see fi i could really go through with it. The other tattoo that I really want is actually two tattoos on my waist on either side of my... well you know... of two shooting stars pointing towards it. Well now my man wants me to add his name in between the two stars right above my... you know what! I was like well what if we break up then I have to explain to every other guy why your name is right there? He's convinced that we will never break up and blah blah blah. I'm not even married to the guy and he wants to brand me in a very intimate spot. I wouldn't mind having his name on me elsewhere because even if we did break up I know I will always love him and never harbor ill feelings towards him. What do you all thinkg?

Answer 1

its your body, and tell him that if that is all good and true to get your name right above his 'very intimate spot'

Answer 2

Getting a tattoo of anyones name other than your own, or your family, is asking for trouble.   I am convinced once you tatoo someone else's name, the gods go to work and mess up anything you had!!!  Let's look at some examples.

1. Angelina's tat of Billy Bob

2. That girl from Rock of Love who tattooed Bret on the back of her neck......she didn't win.

3. Hmm,  all the other millions out there who aren't with whoever is in ink on their skin now!!

Answer 3

I don't think you should get his name there.  No matter what you think now, and how much you love each other, there's always the possibility that you won't be together forever.  If he had a crystal ball and could tell you the future, that'd be a different matter, but he doesn't.  I'd say get his name tattooed somewhere else, somewhere you can say has emotional value and compare it to the lustful value of having it there.  That way he can't argue (at least not without seeming like a pig).

Answer 4

Don't do it. For exactly the reason you mentioned. NOBODY can say that love is forever. The divorce rate in the U.S. is certainly proof of that. Not to mention (therefore I will!) the pain and expense of getting one removed.

Kabum

Answer 5

It's you body, but I say no, I always wanted a butterfly tattoo, I asked myself do I want see this when I am Old with saggy skin.

Answer 6

dont do it........... u will prolly regret it the next day ...

u can always sk him to get ur name on his forehead :D

Answer 7

Don't do anything that you're not comfortable with. If you don't want to get his name tattooed there, then don't. It's your body and there are other ways to express love and devotion. And you have a fantastic and relevant point about breaking up. You never know what the future's going to hold.

I hope this helped, but whatever you decide, I'm sure you'll be happy. Good luck with the tattoo and needles! =)

Answer 8

If he wants it, let him get it on his own skin :-)

Alternatively, get it done on the following conditions:

1) He pays the extra charge for it.

2) He gives you $10,000 which you will place in an escrow account to pay for removal if it ever becomes necessary.  (get it done in blue, a color which removes easier).

3) He romances the living daylights out of you to deal the deal; that could involve jewelry, clothing, dinners, vacations, whatever.